Ep206: Tying outside a marriage -  An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf
Rope Podcast11 Aug 2025

Ep206: Tying outside a marriage - An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Bayowolf and Wolfspearl have been married for 42 years and partners in kink for the last 13. Shibari has become a central part of their journey over the past six years, deepening both their connection and their creativity. About a year and a half ago, with open communication and a deep commitment to their marriage, they chose to begin tying with other people—an experience that has expanded their skills and enriched the bond they share. Both live with autoimmune diseases and actively pursue health and strength through clean eating and an intense fitness regimen, showing that resilience, love, and rope can go hand in hand. In the episode Mya and Fox explore with this delightful couple: • Why they decided to tie with other tops and bottoms • How they explored and agreed what rope with others would look like • Their limits and boundaries to ensure they protect their relationship • What the most challenging topics of discussion were in that conversation • The ways in which they built trust in each other and relaxed some of their boundaries over time • The benefits gained and learnings through tying outside their marriage • Differences between tying with each other versus other people • Being each others’ cheerleaders • Integrating into the rope community as a rope top and rope bottom in their sixties • ‘Onboarding’ new rope bottoms safely • Their perspective on why there are so few rope bottoms over 35 in the community • Tips for older rope bottoms and tops integrating into a new rope community • And plenty more

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Ep9: Rope and Aftercare

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Ep8: USA Rope Touristing in Austin, Texas

Ep8: USA Rope Touristing in Austin, Texas

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Ep7: Handling Pain in Rope

Ep7: Handling Pain in Rope

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Ep6: Rope Erotica On The Air!

Ep6: Rope Erotica On The Air!

Heard much rope erotica? No? Us either. We try something a little bit different, and Fox reads some of his rope erotica. We're curious what you will think - would you like to hear from episodes like t...

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Ep5: Rope Partners - Where and How to Find them

Ep5: Rope Partners - Where and How to Find them

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20 Nov 201727min

Ep4: Gravity Boot Tie

Ep4: Gravity Boot Tie

This weave tie works as well for interesting bedroom bondage as it does for a full inversion suspension. We discuss how to do it (see photos on our fet handle RopePodcast), what it feels like, the ris...

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Ep3: Mya Does London (and Nottingham)

Ep3: Mya Does London (and Nottingham)

How to ‘rope tourist’ in the UK - Mya travels a lot, and she shares her recent adventures in the UK where she attended two jams, a workshop and a social as a rope tourist bottom. Rigger Fox asks her q...

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Ep2: Beginner rope bondage questions from listener Oda of Michigan.

Ep2: Beginner rope bondage questions from listener Oda of Michigan.

Key advice for beginners on rope bondage; suggestions on rope care; negotiation advice; the difference in a tie between too tight and secure; why specific terminology is important, and Rigger Fox and...

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