DAM Chats 2) How to Stop Worrying About "Spoiling" Your Child: A Mindset Shift
Dam Parenting15 Jan 2024

DAM Chats 2) How to Stop Worrying About "Spoiling" Your Child: A Mindset Shift

Are we spoiling them or just meeting their needs? In this second episode of our DAM Chat series, Eva and Maren tackle the age-old dilemma of spoiling versus nurturing. We take a warm, honest, and direct look at the definitions that often haunt parents and explore how to find flexibility in those high-pressure moments.

The reality is that "spoiling" is often a label used by outsiders who only see a fraction of your day. We discuss the importance of grasping our children's perspective and shifting our own perceptions of what a "good" parent looks like. We aren’t corporals raising an army; we are parents building a relationship. This episode is a reminder to stop beating yourself up over a snapshot in time and to embrace a more nurturing, less rigid approach to those difficult behavioral crossroads. Join us as we share our own messy experiences of trying to get it right in a world full of opinions.

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