DAMChats 20) Spoiling Our Kids: Finding the Balance in an International Household
Dam Parenting15 Jul 2024

DAMChats 20) Spoiling Our Kids: Finding the Balance in an International Household

As the holiday season settles in, Eva and Maren are taking a well-deserved break and revisiting one of the most-downloaded conversations in Dam Parenting history: the "Spoiling" episode. In this warm, honest, and direct replay, we tackle the guilt and confusion many international parents feel. Are we "spoiling" our kids with things to compensate for the distance from family, or are we simply parenting differently than the generations before us?

We revisit the heartfelt insights that resonated so deeply with our community, exploring the line between nurturing our children’s happiness and overindulging their every whim. Whether you’re currently navigating holiday wishlists or simply reflecting on your long-term parenting goals, this episode offers comfort, connection, and a reminder that you aren't alone in these questions. Pull up a chair and join us for a real conversation about what it actually means to give our children "the best" while living abroad.


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