LGBTQ+ Parenting in the Netherlands: Belonging, Barriers & Community with Jillian
Dam Parenting2 Jun 2025

LGBTQ+ Parenting in the Netherlands: Belonging, Barriers & Community with Jillian

In honour of LGBTQ+ Families Day I'm thrilled to welcome Jillian to the Dam Parenting podcast. This special day celebrates the diversity, resilience, and love within LGBTQ+ families, highlighting that not all families fit into the traditional structure of one mother and one father.

Jillian shares her personal journey of moving to the Netherlands as part of a same-sex couple, seeking a welcoming environment to raise their child. Despite initial challenges in finding the support they hoped for, Jillian has since flourished—establishing her own business, launching a podcast, and becoming a vital resource for other LGBTQ+ families navigating similar paths.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The motivations and research behind choosing the Netherlands as a home for their family

  • The realities faced upon arrival and the gaps in support systems

  • Jillian's journey to building a supportive network and community

  • Resources and advice for LGBTQ+ families considering or adjusting to life in the Netherlands

Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community, an ally, or someone interested in the diverse experiences of international families, Jillian's story offers valuable insights and inspiration.

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