The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club27 Aug 2025

Stories from the Other Side: Healing After Betrayal and Divorce Recovery with Kristin

Healing after betrayal and navigating divorce recovery isn’t just about leaving a marriage — it’s about rebuilding yourself from the inside out, learning to co-parent with grace, and discovering that you’re stronger than you ever imagined.

In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, I sit down with Kristin, host of Let’s Grow Through It, to talk about her raw and powerful journey through infidelity, divorce, and ultimately, self-love. From the devastating discovery of her husband’s affair, to finding her footing as a single mom, to embracing forgiveness (yes — even with “the other woman”), Kristin shares what it really looks like to turn heartbreak into healing.

Together, we unpack the messy reality of divorce, the importance of doing the inner work, and how creating her “divorce bucket list” became the first step toward transformation.

Whether you’re in the thick of betrayal, navigating custody and co-parenting, or trying to rediscover who you are beyond your marriage, this conversation is filled with hope, hard truths, and a reminder that your comeback story is waiting to be written.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways

How to survive the shock of infidelity and betrayal
The power of a “divorce bucket list” in reclaiming your identity

Why grieving your old life is essential to building a new one

Co-parenting with an ex (and even facing the “other woman”)
The inner work that helps you regulate emotions and move forward

Choosing growth over bitterness in the aftermath of divorce

⏱️ Episode Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
02:05 Kristin's Divorce Journey
04:34 Coping with the Aftermath
07:58 Rebuilding and Self-Discovery
11:49 Embracing the New Life
17:47 Advice for Others
22:37 Grieving and Moving Forward
24:42 Dealing with Anger and Triggers
26:42 The Importance of Inner Work
31:12 Forgiveness and Self-Compassion
36:56 Empowerment and Self-Reliance

40:35 Resources and Support

🌟 Resources & Links

The Club: A Divorce Community to Help You Get Clear, Get Grounded, and Move Forward
There is a new online space for you to get the support and guidance you need on your divorce journey. The Club is your space to heal, grow, and get clear on what you want — whether you are unhappily married or taking those first steps through divorce.

👉 Grab your spot now: The Club

Connect with Kristin

TikTok: @beachykefer
Instagram: @beachykefer

Podcast: Let’s Grow Through It

Connect with Me

Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub

Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wives Club

TikTok: The Crazy Ex-Wives Club

Website: thecrazyexwivesclub.com

✨ Call to Action

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