"What Happens When You Stop Reacting and Start Responding"

"What Happens When You Stop Reacting and Start Responding"

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Yes, No, Maybe Checklist: https://sexwithemily.com/swe-guides/SWE_YesNoMaybeChecklist.pdf Episode Summary In this Sex with Emily episode, comedian Adam Ferrara reveals why he sits by the front door with his dog for exactly 15 minutes every time his wife says "I'll be right there"—and how learning each other's patterns became the secret to their successful long-term marriage. Adam breaks down the difference between reacting and responding, sharing how his Italian upbringing taught him to react emotionally while his marriage taught him to respond from choice. He explains his breakthrough moment realizing that "worry is not responsibility"—a revelation that helped him separate anxiety from actual care-taking—and discusses his journey off ADD medication in favor of meditation and therapy. Through a caller's dilemma about losing sexual attraction to her boyfriend while being tempted by someone else, Emily and Adam explore whether sexual chemistry can be built or if some relationships lack that essential foundation. They tackle the hard truth about the two-year relationship mark when initial passion fades, and provide practical tools like the "Yes, No, Maybe" list for couples working to rebuild intimacy together. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:32 - Losing Sexual Attraction After 2 Years 3:20 - Breaking Down Sexual Compatibility vs. Chemistry Issues 6:46 - The Oral Sex Double Standard Problem 8:13 - Creating vs. Fixing Sexual Connection 11:51 - Adam Ferrara on Anxiety & "Worry is Not Responsibility" 13:27 - Emily's Therapy Process: ADD, Self-Worth & Achievement 16:39 - Finding Presence Through Performance & Connection 18:25 - Marriage Communication: Learning Each Other's Patterns 22:43 - Reacting vs. Responding: Managing Emotional Impulses 25:43 - Meditation Practice: Separating Thoughts from Identity 29:24 - Practical Meditation Tips for Anxiety & ADD 31:16 - Childhood Trauma & Long-Term Anxiety Development 33:26 - Therapy Benefits: Life Tools, Not Stigma 34:28 - Five Quickie Questions

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SWE: American Gangbang

SWE: American Gangbang

Emily interviews formerporn director Sam Benjamin talks about his new book American Gangbang: A Love Story. He describes what’s its like sleeping with porn stars, directing amateur porn, and the golden shower rule. Also, if he directed Emily’s dream porno it would involve a cop. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

24 Feb 201246min

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

People get into the same bad relationships over and over again. Emily talks about how it’s important to recognize your patterns, whether you fall for the bad boy or a momma’s boy. Also, how not to appear needy but still tell someone what you want. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Feb 201242min

SWE: Beating around the Bush

SWE: Beating around the Bush

Emily discusses pubic grooming, the 70's porn bush, and two-toned pubes. Cosmo has a curious take on manscaping, and Emily journeys into a brave new world of butthole bleaching and vajazzling. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Feb 201247min

SWE: Do's and Don'ts

SWE: Do's and Don'ts

Today Emily lays out the do's and dont's of sex and relationships, and states definitively that penis size doesn't matter... well, sometimes... Going after married men, not letting your man know how much you love your vibrator and Menace declares his undying hatred for feet. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Feb 201234min

SWE: V-Day & Night

SWE: V-Day & Night

Emily and Menace discuss all things Valentine's - from self-love to better oral sex, to where not to get your gifts wrapped. A listener is still stumped about where to find porn, and Emily has a profound love for Red Lobster. Plus, learn how to finally achieve an orgasm, how to break up on Valentine's Day, and be aghast but not really that surprised when Menace reveals what everyone asks him about Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Feb 201248min

SWE: Vibrating Valentine

SWE: Vibrating Valentine

Emily lives in a hoarder’s house of sex toys and needs help. Emily also talks about Being predictable in bed, “Baby Daddy” mysteries, penis pumps, and hanging nude self-portraits in your house. Jimmyjane founder Ethan Imboden talks about Valentine's Day gift ideas and how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Feb 20121h

SWE: Date me Online

SWE: Date me Online

okCupid founder Sam Yagen shares online dating profile secrets, Louis Vuitton condoms, breaking up with someone on their birthday, the Don Drapers of the world have low sperm counts, icy hot for your clitoris, is bad sex a good reason to get a divorce? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Feb 201248min

SWE: Romantic or Repulsive?

SWE: Romantic or Repulsive?

Emily and Menace debate whether Valentines Day is adorable or horribly repulsive. If you are going to celebrate the Hallmark made holiday, Emily breaks down the best and worst date ideas, including fast food picnics and Costco dates. Also, Emily talks about elitist penises, sex with virgins, men who don’t want sex, and the worrying, titillating trend of robberies at sex toy stores. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Feb 201244min

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