Episode 10: Self-Identification, Spoons, and the Myth That Girls Can’t Be Autistic

Episode 10: Self-Identification, Spoons, and the Myth That Girls Can’t Be Autistic

Matt and Erin go full “autistic agenda” this week — planning breaks, managing meat-body needs, and calling out the diagnostic nonsense that’s been gatekeeping autism for decades. From James Gunn’s echolalia table moments to the staggering scarcity of autistic clinicians, we dismantle how bias, racism, sexism, and outdated stereotypes warp who gets diagnosed (and how).


We dig into:

  • Why self-identification isn’t just valid — it’s essential
  • The racist and sexist diagnostic “pipelines” that mislabel Black, brown, and female-presenting kids
  • How bad assumptions (“girls can’t be autistic,” “autistics can’t have kids”) still show up in clinical settings
  • The real differences between PDA, general demand avoidance, and ODD
  • The need to factor lived experience — not just external checklists — into diagnosis
  • Spoons, crash recovery, and why autistic professionals can’t (and shouldn’t) mask as neurotypicals to do the job


Also: sarcastic mule metaphors, Happy Meals as special interest currency, placenta previa as connective tissue trivia, and the stunning .00017% of professionals who are both autistic and legally qualified to diagnose.

Denne episoden er hentet fra en åpen RSS-feed og er ikke publisert av Podme. Den kan derfor inneholde annonser.

Episoder(53)

Episode 48: Leaky Foundations, Low Spoons, and Building Something That Lasts

Episode 48: Leaky Foundations, Low Spoons, and Building Something That Lasts

Matt and Erin are wrapping up Season 1 of The Autistic VOICE Project this week — and after 48 episodes, they’re talking honestly about burnout, sustainability, community, and what it takes to keep sho...

29 Mai 27min

Episode 47: Friend-Shaped People, Autism Sparkle, and the Spreadsheet Method of Making Friends

Episode 47: Friend-Shaped People, Autism Sparkle, and the Spreadsheet Method of Making Friends

Matt, Erin, and friend of the show Hunter Hammersen are here this week talking about something a whole lot of Autistic people want and struggle with at the same time: friendship. Specifically, how do ...

25 Mai 50min

Episode 46: Autistic Grief, Co-Regulation, and the People Who Keep Us Human

Episode 46: Autistic Grief, Co-Regulation, and the People Who Keep Us Human

Matt and Erin are back for another mailbag episode — and this one gets deeply personal. From losing an “anchor person” to navigating autistic grief, relationships, PDA parenting, and co-regulation, th...

15 Mai 46min

Episode 45: Nintendo Fidgets, Neutrality, and the Nervous System We Forgot About

Episode 45: Nintendo Fidgets, Neutrality, and the Nervous System We Forgot About

Matt, Erin, and guest Nyck Walsh are here this week — and this episode turns into a really good conversation about somatic therapy, autistic processing, nervous systems, sensory joy, and why neutralit...

8 Mai 41min

Episode 44: Perimenopause, Medical Gaslighting, and Figuring It Out Without a Map

Episode 44: Perimenopause, Medical Gaslighting, and Figuring It Out Without a Map

This episode gets into perimenopause through an autistic lens—what it actually feels like, why it hits differently in autistic bodies, and how little real guidance exists. Matt, Erin, and Eleda talk t...

1 Mai 32min

Episode 43: Special Interests, Safe Spaces, and Saying No to Shame

Episode 43: Special Interests, Safe Spaces, and Saying No to Shame

Matt, Erin, and Eleda get into special interests, collections, and what it means to have a space where Autistic joy isn’t hidden—it’s the whole point. This one’s about building community through the t...

28 Apr 48min

Episode 42: Horses, Hyperfocus, and the Accidental Autistic Gathering Place

Episode 42: Horses, Hyperfocus, and the Accidental Autistic Gathering Place

Matt and Erin are joined by Eleda Towle, an Autistic store owner whose lifelong focus on model horses turned into a business—and a gathering place for other Autistic people. This one moves the way Aut...

17 Apr 34min

Episode 41: Crystals, Experiments, and Figuring Out Who You Are (Without Losing Yourself)

Episode 41: Crystals, Experiments, and Figuring Out Who You Are (Without Losing Yourself)

Matt, Erin, and Jamie Roberts are here this week—and we get into identity development for autistic teens, the pressure to turn yourself into something “useful,” and what it actually looks like to figu...

10 Apr 40min

Populært innen Vitenskap

fastlegen
tingenes-tilstand
abels-tarn
romkapsel
jss
liberal-halvtime
vett-og-vitenskap-med-gaute-einevoll
rekommandert
sinnsyn
dekodet-2
rss-rekommandert
villmarksliv
fjellsportpodden
rss-overskuddsliv
tomprat-med-gunnar-tjomlid
rss-inn-til-kjernen-med-sunniva-rose
kvinnehelsepodden
rss-paradigmepodden
diagnose
rss-nysgjerrige-norge