731: Why We Owe People Honesty | Deep Dive
The Jordan Harbinger Show29 Sep 2022

731: Why We Owe People Honesty | Deep Dive

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) take a deep dive into the pros and cons of candor, how honesty is a core element of all healthy and productive relationships, and why we owe it to others — as well as ourselves.

What We Discuss:
  • Honesty deepens relationships. It requires a great deal of trust and confidence — in ourselves and in our friends — and it implies a whole new conception of what friendship actually is.
  • Honesty attracts people who share your values. You’ll draw people into your life who also value candor, and you’ll distance yourself from people who aren’t interested in an authentic relationship.
  • Honesty secures honesty in return. When you’re honest with the people in your life, you also signal to them that they can be honest with you.
  • How to be honest — without being honestly the worst. Deciding to be honest with a friend doesn’t mean that you’re necessarily right. It just means that you’re willing to share an authentic response, and then explore it with the other person to arrive at the best possible conclusion.
  • How to recognize that there are times when it’s okay to not be honest. For all the benefits of radical honesty, it's wise to be aware of situations in which honesty will not serve you well — or where total candor just isn’t appropriate.
  • And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/731

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the show we did with James Fallon — the psychiatry professor who can teach you how to spot a psychopath because he is a psychopath? Catch up here with episode 28: James Fallon | How to Spot a Psychopath!

Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Episoder(1297)

904: Ditching Bad Dad Would Make You So Glad | Feedback Friday

904: Ditching Bad Dad Would Make You So Glad | Feedback Friday

How do you overcome your abusive father's harassment and protect yourself from his unhinged, unwelcome intrusions in the future? Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jor...

29 Sep 202355min

903: Dan Ariely | Why Rational People Believe Irrational Things

903: Dan Ariely | Why Rational People Believe Irrational Things

What makes rational people believe irrational things? For that matter, how do we know we're the ones being rational? Misbelief author Dan Ariely explains! What We Discuss with Dan Ariely: Why some o...

28 Sep 20231h 25min

902: Michael Easter | Rewiring Your Scarcity Brain in a World of Excess

902: Michael Easter | Rewiring Your Scarcity Brain in a World of Excess

Tired of constantly craving what you don't have instead of being satisfied with what you do? Scarcity Brain author Michael Easter is here to help! What We Discuss with Michael Easter: What is the sc...

26 Sep 20231h 23min

901: Lawns | Skeptical Sunday

901: Lawns | Skeptical Sunday

Your lawn may be your pride and joy, but is there an environmentally friendly alternative? Join us in the weeds with Michael Regilio on Skeptical Sunday! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday: Lawns are a...

24 Sep 202335min

900: Is Three a Crowd When Parents Swing Out Loud? | Feedback Friday

900: Is Three a Crowd When Parents Swing Out Loud? | Feedback Friday

Your openly swinging friends brought a third into their relationship, and you worry about how it's affecting their kids. Welcome to another Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jor...

22 Sep 20231h 2min

899: Jennifer Cohen | Live the Life You Want, Not the Life You Get

899: Jennifer Cohen | Live the Life You Want, Not the Life You Get

Bigger, Better, Bolder author Jennifer Cohen helps us develop the confidence to pursue the life we want instead of settling for the life we get. What We Discuss with Jennifer Cohen: Even the innatel...

21 Sep 20231h 8min

898: Forrest Galante | Seeking Unicorns and Resurrecting the Dodo

898: Forrest Galante | Seeking Unicorns and Resurrecting the Dodo

Wildlife biologist Forrest Galante rejoins us to discuss rediscovering "lost" species and why we should resurrect the dodo, thylacine, and woolly mammoth. What We Discuss with Forrest Galante: What'...

19 Sep 20231h 20min

897: Is Friendship Defeated Because You Dry Cheated? | Feedback Friday

897: Is Friendship Defeated Because You Dry Cheated? | Feedback Friday

Should you throw in the friendship towel after a feckless frottage foul with someone's significant other? Can you make it right? Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jor...

15 Sep 202358min

Populært innen Business og økonomi

stopp-verden
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
dine-penger-pengeradet
e24-podden
rss-borsmorgen-okonominyhetene
rss-penger-polser-og-politikk
finansredaksjonen
pengepodden-2
rss-sunn-okonomi
morgenkaffen-med-finansavisen
utbytte
livet-pa-veien-med-jan-erik-larssen
tid-er-penger-en-podcast-med-peter-warren
pengesnakk
okonomiamatorene
liberal-halvtime
lederpodden
stormkast-med-valebrokk-stordalen
rss-markedspuls-2
arcticpodden