Why Do I Worship Straight Men? | S0507

Why Do I Worship Straight Men? | S0507

Michael (01:10)

Michael delves into the psychological origins of his submissive side, particularly his attraction to straight men. He explains the concept of a "straight hierarchy" within some gay BDSM dynamics, where straight men are placed at the pinnacle of desire. He traces his own connection to this hierarchy back to his adolescence, where his primary male attachments were formed through being bullied by his straight brother and peers at school.

His key realisation is that when he experiences an "attachment injury" in his present life—such as feeling rejected or missing an ex—he subconsciously retreats to the familiar and predictable power dynamics of his youth. Seeking out straight men to humiliate him is a way to return to a simplistic and unconflicted form of bonding where he understands his place, providing a strange sense of security and belonging in moments of emotional pain.


Indy (25:45)

Indy provides updates on several fronts. She recounts a recent interaction with a highly interested submissive who abruptly ghosted her after an online session. This experience reinforces her theory that for many submissives, interest evaporates after orgasm, possibly due to a shame response.

In a more positive and surreal turn of events, she discovers that a submissive she knows has, by sheer coincidence, moved into the house directly across the street. This presents an unexpected opportunity to explore the deeper, companion-style BDSM connection she has been seeking. Finally, she expresses her intense frustration with men on conventional dating apps who repeatedly ignore her boundaries and try to sexualise conversations before meeting. In response, she has adopted a new strategy of creating a completely "vanilla-ised" dating profile, removing any mention of kink or sex to attract more respectful initial connections.

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Meet The Listeners - Lad (Dom) | S02

Meet The Listeners - Lad (Dom) | S02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:10) Intro (04:10) Quick Fire Questions (07:26) Main Kink (10:10) Upbringing (45:25) Fantasy and Analysis Join Michael and Indy this week in the second release of "Meet the Listeners." Today we interview Lad, a dominant with some intriguing kinks such as clothes swapping. Lad answers our quick fire questions before launching into his personal history and story surrounding his sexuality, the origin of his kinks and shame. Then join us for a bonus part of the show where we delve into one of Lad's biggest kinky fantasies...  Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

12 Sep 20211h 6min

Why Do We Submit (Extras) | S02E05

Why Do We Submit (Extras) | S02E05

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

8 Sep 202113min

Why Do We Submit? | S02E05

Why Do We Submit? | S02E05

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us this week as we delve into why it is that we submit. Society increasingly lacks explicit rituals that mark transitions from childhood to adulthood. Women have painful initiations into womanhood such as menstruation and childbirth. Men have their voice break and learn to shave. How does this relate back to submission? Michael goes quite bold and suggests that submission is an attempt to reclaiman the move from boyhood to manhood psychology... Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

5 Sep 202140min

Meet The Listeners - Thomas (Footsub) | S02

Meet The Listeners - Thomas (Footsub) | S02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:10) Intro (01:12) Quick Fire Questions (05:00) Thomas' Main Kink (10:00) Upbringing (47:45) Fantasy and Analysis In this episode, we interviewed Thomas. Thomas has a keen interest for feet and has also explored macrophilia and findom. Listen to his story as we look back and pieces it all together. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

29 Aug 20211h 3min

Let's Get Ready to Ramble! | S02E04

Let's Get Ready to Ramble! | S02E04

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (02:48) Michael's Update (38:08) Indy's Update Join Indy and Michael as they talk about recent struggles and achievements they are having in the BDSM world. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

22 Aug 202144min

We Need To Talk About Religion (Extras) | S02E03

We Need To Talk About Religion (Extras) | S02E03

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

18 Aug 202119min

We Need To Talk About Religion | S02E03

We Need To Talk About Religion | S02E03

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this episode, Michael argues that a deep player within our BDSM comes from a biological religious instinct. Using studies from Nicholas Wade, Michael and Indy mirror sessions they have had to religious behaviour that we would have normally done in previous generations and in ancient times. Does this lack of religious space in today's society mean we are searching for it in other ways like BDSM?  Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

16 Aug 202140min

Archetypes in BDSM? (Extras) | S02E02

Archetypes in BDSM? (Extras) | S02E02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

11 Aug 202126min

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