How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE: The Vagina Lady

SWE: The Vagina Lady

Emily gets up close and personal with The Vagina Lady. What’s the Vagina Lady's mission? To help women overcome any shame they experience for having a vagina. Women are extremely self-conscious about their, um, lady parts. They're so ashamed they don't even want to say the word vagina! But vaginas are awesome for so many reasons. I mean, they have about twice as many nerve endings as the penis. So the next time you feel like vaginas are the inferior genitals, just think about that! This podcast is important to listen to no matter if you have a vagina or not. Many men feed into women's insecurities by making them feel like they don't measure up. Women get Labiaplasty to fit a certain standard of beauty perpetuated by porn. But every woman's vagina is different and fine just the way it is. But if you do want to improve your vagina, do your Kegels! Emily and the Vagina Lady walk you through how to do your Kegel Exercises to feel tighter and healthier down their. Men can also do their Kegels to last longer during sex! Emily also asks the Vagina Lady, "If a man could ask a vagina a question, what would it be?. Also, "if a woman could ask her vagina a question what would it be"? All your vagina questions answered in the podcast! Listen up and love your junk. Special Offer for Sex with Emily: The Vagina Lady Listeners If you want to change your love life, check out my good friends: Crazy Girl, Max4men, Masque, and Good Vibrations, and Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily for 50% off anything at Adam and Eve + free shipping + 3 free DVDs + a free sexy gift. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl or Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Enjoy, The Vagina Lady! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Jul 201322min

SWE: Dating Deal Breakers

SWE: Dating Deal Breakers

Emily shows you how to tell his or her endearing flaws from dating deal breakers. It's easy to ignore the red flags and dating deal breakers when you're sipping on a Margarita and someone sexy is telling you about their summer villa. But the fact that they just got out and/or prison or keep staring at that bosom of the woman in the corner, is probably not a good sign for your future together. You're not going to be able to change anyone. People have to want to change on their own first. The only one you can change is yourself, so start by NOT making these dating deal breakers and dodging the one's that do make these mistakes! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Jul 201347min

SWE: Online Dating Lies

SWE: Online Dating Lies

Emily explains how to navigate through all the online dating lies out there! If he seems too good to be true, he just might be. He's probably not as rich, handsome, tall and dapper as his profile suggests. Here's how to tell the online dating lies from the truth. Also, how to create your own amazing online profile without telling any online dating lies. Can men and women really be friends? Should you ever talk about your ex? Should you send a naked photo to someone? Do men care about lingerie? Or do they just want to see you naked? Are hand jobs really that bad? And when is it time to pick up a hobby other than masturbation? Special offer for my listeners of Online Dating Lies If you are interested in discovering online dating lies and want to change your love life, check out my good friends at Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Enjoy, Online Dating Lies! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Jul 201343min

SWE: The Family Jewels

SWE: The Family Jewels

The time has come to stop ignoring the balls! Emily shows you how to gently and lovingly caress him. Here's what you should and shouldn't do with the family jewels. Also, how to expand your sexual boundaries by pleasuring his taint! If you are interested in the family jewels and you want to change your love life, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more savings today: use code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. I'm always thinking of ways to make your sex life better so use these codes today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Jun 201316min

SWE: Orgasm Obsessed

SWE: Orgasm Obsessed

Almost everyone is orgasm obsessed. But it's hard to enjoy everything else when all you're thinking about is getting to that wonderful feeling at the end. It's all about the journey! Stop obsessing about orgasms! Calm down, slow down and listen to these tips on how to enjoy sex more and yes, learn how to experience orgasms all around. Also, how long do you have to make out with her before you can touch her vagina? If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to give a woman an orgasm, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more savings today: use code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. I'm always thinking of ways to make your sex life better so use these codes today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Jun 201347min

SWE: Attract Women

SWE: Attract Women

You have about 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be this way. It's not just something you're born with! If you didn't come out of the womb a complete stud you can still learn how to attract women! If you want to know exactly what to say, check out a free video of Jason demonstrating his deadliest pick-up line. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Jun 201347min

SWE: Backyard Sex

SWE: Backyard Sex

The sun is shining, the flowers are blooming, and you’re getting it on in the backyard. Emily talks about having sex outside, whether you want to get down in the public bathroom or at the beach. Good luck not getting sand or dirt in your junk once you get off the beaten path! Emily talks about women who want sex more than men, because that actually happens all the time! Forget all the stereotypes about women not wanting sex. Also, how to keep an erection and how to get rid of your crazy ex. If you want to change your love life and are interested in backyard sex, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Jun 201354min

SWE: How to Have Sex Again

SWE: How to Have Sex Again

It might have happened once, but how do you have sex again? Emily asnwers the question: Why isn't she having sex with you anymore? Is it the teddy bear collection? Or is the sex just boring? Find out on today’s show. Emily also talks about how to keep the fire alive while living together and how to fight the urge to cheat. If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to have sex again, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Jun 20131h

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