378 Beyond Exhausted? Strategic Incompetence Might Be to Blame

378 Beyond Exhausted? Strategic Incompetence Might Be to Blame

Do you feel like you are the only person in your life who knows how to do anything correctly?

Have you ever asked your partner or your teenager to do something, and they come back with "But you do it so much better…" or "I don't know how…" OR wait so long to start that you just end up doing it?

What if the people in your life are pretending to be less competent than they are to get you to do more than your share? Let that sink in.

If you are overworking, overdoing, and, if you're honest, resentful and burnt out, you might want to learn about strategic (or weaponized) incompetence.

In today's podcast, I break down this manipulation tactic and share how you can begin to step back from overfunctioning and move towards a more equitable distribution of labor in your life.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/378

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109 Explosive Boundaries: How to Respond Instead of React

109 Explosive Boundaries: How to Respond Instead of React

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14 Aug 201720min

108 How to Deal with Boundary Bullies (Including Narcissists!)

108 How to Deal with Boundary Bullies (Including Narcissists!)

"When you learn to say no early and often this spares you trauma down the road." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/108 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaph...

7 Aug 201724min

107 Boundary Bootcamp at the Office!

107 Boundary Bootcamp at the Office!

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106 How to Set Boundaries with Impossible People (Including Narcissists!)

106 How to Set Boundaries with Impossible People (Including Narcissists!)

"Drawing boundaries effectively and healthily is actually learning an entirely new language." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/106 Learn more about your ad choices....

24 Jul 201726min

105 Three Ways to STOP Wrecking Your Relationships

105 Three Ways to STOP Wrecking Your Relationships

"You don't just have a right, you have an obligation to be clear about your boundaries." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/105 Learn more about your ad choices. Visi...

17 Jul 201725min

104 Self-Trust, Surrender, and Wild Dreaming with Elizabeth DiAlto

104 Self-Trust, Surrender, and Wild Dreaming with Elizabeth DiAlto

"Whenever I want to move forward in anything, surrender is not just the logical but also the mental, emotional, and spiritual first step." - Elizabeth DiAlto Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://...

14 Jul 20171h 1min

103 Three Steps to Becoming Your Own Gratitude Guru

103 Three Steps to Becoming Your Own Gratitude Guru

"Do your best to focus on what's right in your life right now." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/103 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Jul 201714min

102 Chronic Complaining Damages Your Brain (Stop Now!)

102 Chronic Complaining Damages Your Brain (Stop Now!)

"People hate to be around a chronic complainer." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/102 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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