Will This Work For Me Even if I'm A Tough Case

Will This Work For Me Even if I'm A Tough Case

Believing it won't work for you is the most common concern people have.

Everyone believes they're a tough case!

Makes total sense when nothing you try resolves your issue, doesn't it?

When you try something that is supposed to work, and it doesn't...

… what does that do to your belief that 'you'll overcome it?

That's right, it adds doubt to it. And it puts a crack in the slight optimism you may have had.

Try the next thing, and it doesn't work again? Now you really start feeling there's something wrong with you.

Try even more, and that also doesn't work?

"Uh oh, I must be a tough case"

Or you might even start believing you're just an anxious/awkward person!

Well, that's not true. You're not born anxious.

If you doubt that, have you ever seen any anxious babies?

Right.

And, what if what you've tried in the past simply hasn't been an effective solution? Or at the very least, not an effective solution FOR YOU.

And, what if that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you?

Instead, it just means you haven't tried the right approach for you. The 30-day challenge guides you through a completely different strategy.

The ACT approach you'll learn about…

… does NOT require you to forcefully face your fears.

A.C.T. sounds like you have to act physically. Which might imply you need to go outdoors and hopscotching in the park. Or sing in the supermarket. Or lie down in public. Or…

Well, good news: None of these awkward exposures are necessary.

I know, I know…

It's counter to what you've read and heard the so-called experts say.

They say you need to force yourself to face your fears. And that it's the only way.

Well, how do I say this nicely...

They're wrong :-)

They're not intentionally wrong. I'm sure they mean well. But they're simply operating based upon old information.

Now the reality is that changing your thoughts and facing your fears does work. For SOME people. And, to some degree only.

Because those for whom it does work, are still anxious!

Just less…

Now that's great, but what if you could actually overcome your social anxiety completely?

That's possible with this approach.

This approach is gentle. And scientifically proven to be effective (more than 100 scientific studies confirm its effectiveness). And it meets the criteria for evidence-based treatments set by the American Psychological Association for a number of conditions, including PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder)

So… Since you've never tried THIS strategy, and it that has worked for countless others…

… what if this could work for you too?

During the challenge, you'll see various video testimonials. Complete interviews with former sufferers whom I coached to social ease. This will be very inspiring for you to see.

Sure, you might still go "well, it works for them, but probably not for me". And that's OK.

But that belief too will start to shift as you begin seeing real results after applying this technique you'll be guided through. Just like how it went for these 2 people whose comments I am sharing in today's Testimonial Tuesday.

The next 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge will start on May 18th / in 6 days from now!

Hope you're becoming more hopeful, because I'd love to see you join us!

Go to bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge

Seb

PS When I used to say to my coach "it just seems too good to be true"... ... she'd reply "What if this is too good NOT to be true?"

Ponder that ;-)

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You're not alone.
I've been there. It sucks. Big time.
But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:
1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course.

3.) Let's connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
• FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
• IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
• Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards,
Seb

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Too Busy To Work on Your Social Anxiety? Listen to This.

Too Busy To Work on Your Social Anxiety? Listen to This.

If you keep telling yourself, 'I'll work on my anxiety when I have "more time", this is for you. In this episode... Most people with social anxiety do want change, but they feel like it's not the "right time" yet. If you've ever thought: "I'm too busy to tap, I don't have time right now." "I'll fix this later when things slow down." "I just don't have the energy and space for this right now…" …then this episode will help shift your mindset. I'll share: ✅ Why lack of time isn't the real problem ✅ How subconscious resistance disguises itself as procrastination ✅ A quick tapping sequence to break through that resistance, even if you feel overwhelmed ✅ Why short, guided, self-paced sessions can free up more energy than they take You don't need hours. You just need a different approach. 🎁 Want a quick way to start? Grab my free mini course, The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence. It's completely self-paced and includes short, guided tapping exercises that you can easily follow on your own time. They'll help you regain hope and start feeling that change is actually possible. 👉 Start here now: bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast "I've had anxiety for 20 years… I'm at the stage I can't go anywhere… Thank you for showing me the videos." – V Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

6 Nov 13min

Why CBT Didn't Work for Me — And What Finally Did

Why CBT Didn't Work for Me — And What Finally Did

Tried CBT, exposure therapy, affirmations — and still anxious? You're not alone. I spent years trying to "change my thoughts" and "face my fears," only to make minimal progress. In this episode... I share the full story of how I went from crippling social anxiety to calm confidence — without forcing myself into scary situations or endlessly challenging my thinking. You'll hear: Why traditional methods like CBT helped intellectually but didn't shift my emotional reactions The missing piece that finally created real relief The specific method I used to dissolve anxiety at the root How you can start experiencing relief — even if everything else has failed 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Learn how you can start feeling calmer in social situations — even before you "fix your thinking." Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

30 Okt 16min

The Night I Thought I'd Never Overcome This

The Night I Thought I'd Never Overcome This

In this episode... Social anxiety can feel more intense even after years of progress. I share a personal story of a tough setback and how I handled it without forcing scary exposures. You'll learn: ✅ How a new trigger can show up even after feeling like you've come so far ✅ How I used EFT tapping to reduce the perception of threat ✅ How to track progress by intensity, duration, and frequency. Triggers can be worked through. Persistence wins. Start building hope now with the free 7 Secrets to Social Confidence: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

24 Okt 13min

Replay: Live EFT Coaching: Release the Fear of Blushing (Tap-Along)

Replay: Live EFT Coaching: Release the Fear of Blushing (Tap-Along)

Blushing can feel like exposure. I lived it for years. In this episode... I guide a live tap-along session on blushing social anxiety. We focus on the fear of shame and rejection underneath the redness so your body can feel calmer and safer. I also share how I handled blushing myself and why releasing fear comes before fixing symptoms. No forced exposure. Practical EFT you can use today with the ARTX approach. You'll discover: ✅ Why fear of shame keeps blushing and social anxiety stuck ✅ How acceptance lowers reactivity and builds resilience ✅ Tap-along phrasing to ease fear in the moment ✅ A simple frame for setbacks so progress continues Tap along to build tolerance for uncomfortable feelings and more ease in social situations. Start your journey here: 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

16 Okt 38min

Your Social Anxiety Came Back?

Your Social Anxiety Came Back?

Think your social anxiety came back after making progress? You're not alone, and it doesn't mean you failed. In this episode... You'll hear how my client "Karl" went from years of anxiety at jiu-jitsu to feeling calm, confident, and social - and what happened when his anxiety "returned" later. He thought nothing worked. In truth, something deeper was ready to heal. You'll learn: ✅ Why progress isn't linear ✅ What's really happening when you get triggered "again" ✅ How acceptance accelerates healing Karl's story proves that with steady commitment, real change is possible. Start your journey here: 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

9 Okt 9min

How to Face Social Anxiety Without Forcing Yourself

How to Face Social Anxiety Without Forcing Yourself

Avoiding social situations because they feel overwhelming? You are not broken. There is a safer way to take action. In this episode... I show how to stop shrinking your life and start building social ease with gentle at-home tapping and non-scary exposure. You will learn how to reduce fear first, then take small steps that create real-world wins. What you'll discover: 🔹 Why avoidance shrinks your world and keeps anxiety stuck 🔹 How to tap on resistance before any practice 🔹 A simple plan: lower the fear at home, then test it in real life 🔹 The "this is who I am" myth and how to change it 🔹 How progress works: intensity, frequency, and duration go down over time 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

2 Okt 12min

Healthy Boundaries and Emotional Strength for Social Anxiety Relief (with Dr. David Lake)

Healthy Boundaries and Emotional Strength for Social Anxiety Relief (with Dr. David Lake)

Are you saying yes when you want to say no? Struggling with people-pleasing and feeling unsafe in social situations? You are not alone. Weak boundaries keep social anxiety in place. In this episode... I talk with Dr. David Lake, medical practitioner and psychotherapist, about building inner security, setting clear boundaries, and using tapping to calm fear, anxiety, and old emotional hurt. We cover what healthy boundaries look like in real life, how to say no without guilt, and simple ways to use EFT in everyday situations. You will also hear when one-to-one therapy adds power and how to start strengthening your limits today. What you'll discover: 🔹 Why clear boundaries reduce social anxiety 🔹 How emotional strength makes social situations feel safer 🔹 Practical ways to use EFT to handle fear and old hurt 🔹 When to seek face to face support and why it helps 🔹 First steps to set limits without guilt 💡 Quote from Dr. Lake: "It is life-changing. The results are very compelling." 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

25 Sep 1h 12min

From Social Anxiety to Social Ease, One Step at a Time

From Social Anxiety to Social Ease, One Step at a Time

Feeling stuck or demotivated? In this episode... I share a simple way to make real progress with social anxiety. We keep it small and doable with short daily tapping sessions (start with 15 minutes a day) that build momentum. I show what to do when you do not feel like tapping: tap on the resistance first. You will hear practical examples you can try today, like loosening old beliefs, easing the emotion on tough memories, and testing old triggers again when you feel ready. No pressure. No perfection. Just steady steps toward feeling more at ease being yourself. Take one step today. 🎁 Free Mini Course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 👉 bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb

18 Sep 7min

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