93: 🔎 5 dating questions to spot the avoidant (or secure one) EARLY on

93: 🔎 5 dating questions to spot the avoidant (or secure one) EARLY on

Ever wondered how to SPOT an avoidant early on, or what a securely attached partner actually looks like?

Dating can feel like a minefield when you have an anxious attachment, right? 🧠

You meet someone, start to get attached, and only later realize they’re emotionally unavailable. They pull away. You overthink.

Suddenly, you’re stuck in the same anxious spiral, replaying the same patterns again and again.

In this episode, I’m showing you how to spot avoidant tendencies early, understand attachment patterns, and recognize what a secure, emotionally available partner actually looks like.

Because the goal isn’t to judge... it’s to create awareness, so you stop chasing mixed signals, stop overextending emotionally, and start investing in the people who actually make you feel calm, seen, and safe. đŸ–€âœš

By the end of this episode, you’ll know:

  • How anxious and avoidant patterns secretly show up in early dating

  • Why you keep feeling pulled into the same exhausting cycles

  • How to spot secure energy so you can attract healthier connections

  • Ways to protect your nervous system and emotional wellbeing while dating

đŸ–€ ON SALE: How to Stop OVERTHINKING Your Relationship in 4 Steps (With Your Avoidant Partner)

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/overthinkingcourse

đŸ–€ ON SALE: How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text (because safety comes from within, and you chasing or not settling boundary is the thing that give you anxiety, NOT a delayed text.)

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety

Free Quiz: Find your top 2 Relationship needs (before your subconscious will sabotage you by meeting it in unhealthy ways, through like overthinking, clinging too hard to chasing)

https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/needs

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Understanding Attachment Styles in Dating 01:42 Question 01 04:49 Question 02 09:21 Question 03 13:40 Question 04 18:20 Question 05 20:50 Bonus Question 23:02 Key Questions to Identify Attachment Styles

đŸ–€ FREE Attachment LIBRARY

(worksheets, prompts, quizzes and more)

https://linktr.ee/the.anxious.to.secure.coach

đŸ–€ Attachment Style QUIZ

https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz

DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.

Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

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Episoder(137)

135: Your avoidant partner doesn’t prioritise you
UNLESS you do THIS.

135: Your avoidant partner doesn’t prioritise you
UNLESS you do THIS.

grab your daily anxious-to-secure rewriting protocol so you no longer freak out when he pulls away. If you don’t feel like a priority in your relationship right now, with your dismissive avoidant part...

26 Mai 16min

134: 5 signs you’re in a toxic cycle with a dismissive avoidant partner (and how to break it)

134: 5 signs you’re in a toxic cycle with a dismissive avoidant partner (and how to break it)

GRAB here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away! If you keep overthinking texts, chasing reassurance, and feeling stuck in a hot and cold relationship
 this is for you  In thi...

19 Mai 13min

133: How to break the anxious avoidant cycle (without chasing HIM))

133: How to break the anxious avoidant cycle (without chasing HIM))

Grab here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away!   How to break the anxious avoidant cycle without chasing him ❀‍đŸ©č In this episode, I share why anxious and avoidant couples ...

12 Mai 14min

132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

Five things you should NEVER say to your avoidant partner  UNLESS you want to trigger him to shut down or get defensive... If you keep thinking “why is he shutting down when I just ask for the bare m...

5 Mai 24min

131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment
and become secure

131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment
and become secure

hills I will die on as someone who healed their anxious attachment
 Ever feel like your world falls apart when your partner pulls away? ⛈ Like you’re overthinking texts, chasing reassurance, and stil...

28 Apr 16min

130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away
 but these 5 signs say he’s trying

130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away
 but these 5 signs say he’s trying

Is your avoidant partner pulling away
 or actually trying?  here are CLEAR signs he IS trying (and he DOES want you.)   If you have an anxious attachment style and you're constantly overthinking your ...

21 Apr 21min

129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

Ever wondered: do avoidants even care? Does he even love me if he pulls away? If you have an anxious attachment style, this episode will hit đŸ§ â›ˆïž Because it often feels like YOU are the only one tryin...

14 Apr 18min

128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

Grab here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away!   If you keep ending up with emotionally unavailable partners
 if you feel anxious when he pulls away, overthink every text, a...

7 Apr 32min

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