You Can’t Do Grief Alone (and You’re Not Meant To) // Clarissa Moll

In this heartfelt conversation with author Clarissa Moll, we explore the realities of grief, parenting through loss, and the hope that sustains us. Together, we talk honestly about the loneliness of grief, how the church can step into its calling as a healing community, and the ways parents can support their children while tending to their own broken hearts. Clarissa reminds us that resilience is learned, but resurrection is a gift only God can give—and both shape how we walk through sorrow with open hearts and anchored hope.

Key Takeaways:

1. Grief often isolates us, but the church can be a place of belonging and healing when it leans into its role as a supportive community.
2. Practical, proactive offers of help (like meals, errands, childcare) serve grieving families better than vague questions.
3. Children grieve in ways consistent with their personalities—some express it outwardly, others through activity or art.
4. Parents don’t have to do this alone—teachers, coaches, friends, and church leaders can all form a vital circle of support.
5. There is no set timeline for grief; prolonged changes in eating, sleeping, or behavior may signal a need for additional help.
6. Resilience is a skill we can learn, but resurrection is God’s unique work—reminding us that our hope is never wasted.
7. Grief, while painful, can reorient our hearts to deeper intimacy with God and compassion for others.

Website: www.clarissamoll.com

Instagram: @mollclarissa

Substack: clarissamoll.substack.com

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