you can’t self-optimize yourself into finding love – ep. 134

you can’t self-optimize yourself into finding love – ep. 134

in this week’s episode, we’re talking about self-optimization and the impact of luck in finding love! MAJOR… THEY DON’T WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS!!! and we’re also chatting about surveillance culture and the impact of find my friends on the whimsy of surprises and dealing with regret around a friendship ending.

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