Unlock Public Speaking Confidence: Lessons from Military, Survival TV, and TEDx with Terry L. Fossum

Send us a text What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience. I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same. In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose. Here’s what we talk about in this episode: How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days) What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!) Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world. Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices