16. Beyond the Algorithm: Healing the Wound in Modern Masculinity

16. Beyond the Algorithm: Healing the Wound in Modern Masculinity

When no one teaches men what love really is — the internet will...

In this powerful yet concise reflection, Henrik reads a real email titled “How to Manipulate Women to Get What You Want” — a disturbing glimpse into what young men are being taught online every day.
But beneath the noise lies something deeper: a generational wound, passed from father to son, from culture to child.

And it’s not just men.
On the other side of the algorithm, women are being sold a different illusion — the rise of the “tradwife”, preaching submission and silence as the path to love.
Both stories grow from the same root: fear.
Fear of not being enough. Fear of not being safe. Fear of being seen.

This episode isn’t about blame - it’s about awareness.
Because if we, as adults, stay silent, algorithms will raise our sons. Porn will shape their desires.
And the line between play and violation, between pleasure and power, will vanish before they even turn twelve.

Real masculinity isn’t about control - it’s about safety.
Love doesn’t need hierarchy. It needs honesty.
Presence heals what performance never can.

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14. Emilia, Part I: The Familiar Hell

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What happens when the patterns of our childhood shape every choice we make in love?In this first part of Emilia’s story, we step into a life marked by chaos, longing, and the silent wounds of family h...

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13. Mor: Feelings are the playground for our souls

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In this episode, Henrik sits down with mind-body coach Mor Shavit for an unfiltered conversation about shame, intimacy, and healing. Together they explore how cultural patterns teach women to feel “to...

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12. Andy: Redefining Masculinity Through Presence

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Andy, originally from New Zealand and now living in London, opens up about his journey with intimacy, vulnerability and what it means to be a man today. From a grounded upbringing to moments of awaken...

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Pit Stop: Pause, Reflect and Shape What Comes Next

Pit Stop: Pause, Reflect and Shape What Comes Next

Welcome to a special pit stop of the 34o Podcast. In this episode, I pause to reflect on the powerful journeys we’ve shared so far — stories of intimacy, shame, healing, and presence. I also give you ...

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11. Julia: Breaking the Chains of Shame & Fear

11. Julia: Breaking the Chains of Shame & Fear

The story of Julia illustrates how shame can silently shape our lives – regardless of cultural background. It shows how old patterns repeat in relationships and how true healing begins with learning t...

8 Sep 202538min

10. Fear of Relationships: Choosing Love over Fear

10. Fear of Relationships: Choosing Love over Fear

Love is not always a feeling – it’s a choice. In this episode of 34o Podcast, Henrik explores what it means to stay when it feels easier to run, to choose presence when fear whispers “escape.” Vulnera...

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9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

In this episode of 34o Podcast, Henrik reflects on how intimacy often gets lost in performance – doing what we think we “should” instead of being fully present. He explores what happens when we shift ...

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