RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Betrayal Recovery, Porn Addiction Recovery, Relationships, Infidelity3 Apr 2024

57 - 5 Lies That Keep Us Stuck and the Truth That Sets Us Free

Are you feeling stuck in your healing? Or maybe you are beginning to identify unhealthy patterns in your relationship as you navigate recovery and begin to dig more deeply into through patterns and emotions. In todays episode, Kylene and Patrick tackle 5 common lies that we are prone to believe and then share the TRUTHS that will set you free! 1. Telling the truth will hurt my spouse more than my secrets

2.Sex is a need

3. If I’ve forgiven or committed towards reconciliation it means we can’t talk about it anymore

4.Porn isn’t the same as an affair (addicted uses it as an excuse, betrayed feels stuck in pain - both feel the need to qualify)

5. Sex is how I connect with my partner

Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.

Podcast episode from Conversations with Dr Jennifer: Engage in the Process part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/id1479472319?i=1000526284277

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

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