Enzo - Connection, Chaos, and Recovery
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Enzo for a raw conversation about addiction, sobriety, sex work, self-worth, and the chaos of trying to rebuild your life while still being fully ins...
18 Mai 1h 10min
Brian - Belonging, Grief, and Queer Ritual
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Brian G. Murphy, author of Love Beyond Monogamy, for a conversation about ritual, community, and the ways we create meaning in our lives. Together, t...
16 Mar 1h 8min
Tom - Monogamous, Open, or Something Else?
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they u...
8 Des 20251h 6min
Gary - Compulsive Sex, Safety & the Search for Real Intimacy
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Gary Albert — therapist, embodiment facilitator, and former classical musician — to explore the winding path that led him into supporting gay men in ...
24 Nov 20251h 8min
Daniel - Getting Off or Getting Real?
Send us Fan Mail Vance and Daniel dive into the complexities of the adult industry—exploring perceptions, personal journeys, and the importance of intimacy and connection in porn. They unpack the real...
27 Okt 20251h 14min
David aka Davey Wavey - Love, Lust, and Age Gaps
Send us Fan Mail Vance sits down with David Jacques, aka Davey Wavey, for a no-holds-barred conversation about dating, hookups, and desire. They swap some of their best (and worst) dating stories and ...
13 Okt 202552min
Kevin - Authenticity, Mindfulness, and Sexual Empowerment
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Coach Kevin Martin and Vance dive into personal growth, the intersection of therapy and content creation, and the journey of embracing sexuality. We talk about the ch...
29 Sep 20251h 1min
