Ep 4: Throuple Tensions: When Swinging Stops Feeling Like Fun

On this week’s episode, we go back to the basics of swinging 101 for newbies. Pedro helps a long time friend navigate the lifestyle with tips on how to interact with others and how to get okay happening. Tiff brings her perspective from being a unicorn and what she can sense from a couple with how they interact with each other. We talk about the key points to keeping your relationship healthy so that you can have a successful play experience in the LS.   We brought back a fun segment! This time we each told a descriptive sexy encounter we had in the LS and all 3 stories are very hot!

14 Apr 20251h 10min

On this week’s episode Tink has rejoined us to discuss our bucket list fantasies. Tiff’s fantasy is wild and crazy and full of possibilities yet could be hard to get all together. Pedro’s is getting the ultimate hot husband surprise, while Tink wants to cream-pied all over.   Tink asks the question many poly people struggle with and that is How was the one on one time? We discussed the missing of each other, difference in communication and how each one of us handled not being all together.   In our BDSM, Tiff and Pedro discuss her journey into becoming a submissive and what she will want to get out of submission and the growth submission can give her.

31 Mar 20251h 8min

n this weeks episode we are missing our beloved Tink, but Tiff and Pedro discuss preferences in the swing lifestyle and how there is a double standard with women having preferences versus men having  preferences .   In our Poly segment Tiff talks equality in a throuple as the new addition to an existing relationship. Can equality be reached? Find out what she has to say and let us know on the Facebook page what your thoughts are.   And to wrap the show up Pedro talks to Tiff about her new desire to learn about the BDSM lifestyle and where she may want to take it. Will it just be a play scenario or will she dive deep into the world of submission?

24 Mar 20251h 19min

We can’t believe it but we hit 100 episodes! It landed perfectly for us to talk about our first hotel takeover as a throuple with our gf and new co-host Tiffany! All 3 of us recapped on our overall experience at Delco Degenerates 1st hotel takeover. There was lots of fun, amazing people, tons of vendors and activities.   We were surprised to have met some other swingers who happened to be poly as well and how they navigated swinging with their relationship. Many amazing people reached out to us for some guidance or questions they had.   The Haus of Carmine put on a wonderful seminar on BDSM with their amazing tastings they offered for anyone interested in rope play, electric play, fire play and impact.

17 Mar 20251h 19min

This week Pedro, Tink and Tiff take a trip Delco in PA for the first ever Delco Degenerates hotel takeover. We sit down for a live round table discussion with Jeff and Jessica, The owners and operators of the Delco Degenerates in front of 60 of our closest friends.

10 Mar 20251h 3min

Pedro and Tink got to have a special guest on our show today to discuss our surprise throuple formation. Miss Tiff, a previous unicorn in the swing lifestyle has made a connection with Pedro and wanted to play. During their conversation poly was brought up and it opened a whole new chapter for all of us. As a throuple we discussed how we would like to continue being in the swing lifestyle together. Pedro, Tink and Tiff discuss Continuing to swing while being in the throuple and how we want to play all together. There are many more options that we foresee now in the lifestyle and look forward to traveling this together.   Pedro and Tink are going to be revamping the podcast once we move back to PA to be more focused on swing to advocate the lifestyle with proper information. We will continue this form of swing,poly and bdsm in short videos on Facebook and YouTube. We also will be having Tiff as a permanent new host on the podcast.

13 Jan 20251h 8min

On this week’s episode Pedro and Tink dive into swinging for newbies 101 and some red flags to avoid. We had a listener ask about what to look out for and we chose a few to start with such as single dudes and single females and the behaviors that you should be Leary of.   In our poly segment Tink brings up some of the issues that she finds on the dating apps and the lack of people reading bios.   We will be posting our next episode on Christmas Day! We hope yall have a Merry Christmas 🎄

16 Des 20241h 6min

On our 96th episode (yes my bad, last week was 95) we discuss how we would handle if a condom breaks during the heat of the moment while playing with someone. We all want to be safe and always get tested but accidents like this still happen, it all comes down to how you handle it.   When it comes to our poly findings, I for one have noticed the pool is slim for my taste in women and even men (even though I am not seeking a bf). Pedro has even found that with his broad range of taste in ladies that the poly pool is much smaller for him too. It comes down to who we find attraction towards and looks are still a factor just as much as personality traits.   A new section this week is women’s health! Tink wanted to bring up ladies’ hygiene and different actions ladies can take to prevent BV and irritations from arising with new play partners. (There are some good products to use like: 1.) Happy Hoo-Haa probiotics 2.) Fantasy Box boric acid suppositories 3.) Promescent wipes for before or after play )

9 Des 20241h