Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict. WANT NO ADS AND MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus FREE $60 gift! Go to www.thrivemarket.com/ADULTING. Firstleaf - Try something new this year with Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING to sign up and you'll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95.Shopify - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting Zocdoc - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him15:01 Men and women do things differently15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict Ad Timestamp:13:45 - Express VPN16:36 - Thrive Market28:35 - First LeafshopifyzocdocGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

11 Jan 202443min

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there. This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we likely fall for the wrong person, armed with a huge ego and a wounded inner child he never knew existed within him. That guy who gives you mixed signals and then leaves you hanging when they have their fun. While difficult people can be frustrating and draining, they also have the ability to help us become better versions of ourselves. And this is possible when we start to love ourselves a little more, see our own value, understand what we truly desire in life. Bestie, it’s finally time to drop that toxic relationship, friendship, or whatever it is. Do it NOW - you will only thank yourself later.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsors:Talkspace - Get $80 off of you first month when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting Ghia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.IQBAR - Now, our special podcast listeners get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text ADULTING to 64000.Babbel: http://www.babbel.com code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:38 Why do we love difficult people?05:07 When we feel the lack of spark08:27 The reasons why we’re attracted to the wrong person11:59 Guys with daddy issues18:56 The second boyfriend: a toxic guy25:39 I thought love had to be achieved28:00 Daddy Issues35:06 Start loving yourselfAd Timestamps:14:45 - Talkspace16:50 - Ghia28:48 - IQBARGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

9 Jan 202446min

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:24 You are the creator of you reality11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money 19:25 More manifestation mantra22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?25:28 The 111 portal this January29:41 How the Love Letter method works34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst Connect with Sarah on:https://www.tiktok.com/@hothighpriestess https://www.instagram.com/hothighpriestess https://www.youtube.com/c/hothighpriestess The Priestess Perspective podcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

4 Jan 202438min

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserveGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

2 Jan 202425min

YOU CALL IT OCTOBER, I CALL IT CULT MONTH ON ALMOST ADULTING PODCAST!This month focuses entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations. This week on Almost Adulting Violet speaks with Celeste, a former member of the Children of God (now called The Family International). Children of God was founded in Huntington Beach, California in 1968 by David Berg, and was eventually dubbed by BBC as ‘hell on earth’. Celeste brings the listener on an emotional journey, giving vivid details of what life was like as a person born into Children of God, and her upbringing within the confines of the cult without sparing any details. Celeste then explains how she escaped, post-cult living, and her one wish for the people responsible for their heinous crimes. TW: sexual abuseCOME TO MY SHOW AT THE HOLLYWOOD IMPROV ON OCT. 24! BUY TICKETS HERE: https://improv.com/comic/violet+benson/ Donations to the victim can be made here:Cashapp: £MooncelPaypal: Celestemilon1990@gmail.comAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:37 What is the Children of God?02:37 The biggest misconceptions about the group03:44 Joining the cult08:13 How do children spend their day?12:40 The system13:33 Very limited access to healthcare15:00 What’s flirty fishing?19:48 No limit around age or status22:24 Earliest memory of sexual abuse25:13 Sexual sharing28:35 Is it easy to leave the cult?33:58 Adjusting to the normal world35:59 Growing up after leaving the cult42:17 How do you view religion now?46:17 Forgiving your parents47:52 Reviving the cult50:39 Reconnecting with other cult childrenGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

28 Des 20231h

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever! Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!Today’s Sponsor:Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://www.shopify.com/adulting Podcast Merch - shopdaddyissues.com get 20% off at checkout!!!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro04:53 Be the energy you want to attract07:51 Signs from the universe1205 Angel numbers and what they mean19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream lifeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

26 Des 202330min

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), and a crash course on surviving the turbulent waves of cancel culture. It's Almost Adulting meets The Bitch Bible – the perfect combo for a podcast episode that's bold, badass, and totally binge-worthy! Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGUrban Outfitters - Shop https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/ and receive an additional 10% off when you use the code VIOLET10 at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:41 Over indulgence of self esteem03:01 When hate comments don’t affect you anymore06:34 “I’m not an internet person.”07:33 Why are pregnant women terrorists?12:03 The Hitler joke 16:57 How did you become a podcaster?21:51 The lucky girl syndrome26:20 Low-key manifesting girly26:54 The OG podcaster29:09 Cancel culture33:20 To be clear is to be kind35:59 What is your journey?38:42 The vocal fry40:09 Are you a cool girl?43:54 Dinner with model friends47:22 My slutty pregnancy era48:50 Makeup preference and fake freckles52:58 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten55:21 Best advice received in your 30s57:57 Compliments for each others58:55 Most embarrassing life experience01:02:17 Embarrassing experiences with boys01:06:00 How did you meet your husband?01:11:12 We need a Mommy Issues IG01:12:05 One advice to inspire all BestiesConnect with Jackie on:https://www.instagram.com/jackieschimmel/ https://thebitchbible.com/ https://www.instagram.com/bitchbible/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

21 Des 20231h 19min

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume - Control body odor anywhere with @lumedoedorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at https://lumedeodorant.com/ Revolve - Revolve always delivers with free and fast two-day shipping and returns, so visit www.revolve.com/adulting to shop my favorites for all your upcoming plans this season.Ghia - Visit drinkghia.com and use the code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?17:13 Fun fact about deers18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?22:40 I think I killed a lizard26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4 Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19 Des 202336min