
The Polyamory Trap of Finding Different Partners to Fill Different Needs, Ep. 128
Have you ever thought, “If my partner can’t meet all my needs, maybe another partner will”? In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I break down why that belief is one of the biggest traps in ...
18 Sep 202516min

Polyamory’s Biggest Struggle Isn’t Jealousy — It’s Scheduling, EP. 127
Most people think the toughest part of polyamory is jealousy. But according to Richie, it’s actually… logistics. Yep, the calendar. After a life-changing cancer journey with his partner, Richie realiz...
11 Sep 202553min

Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126
What if midlife wasn’t the decline everyone warns you about, but a second spring? In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I sit down with Carla Wainwright, Holistic Wellness Coach, Sexual Awake...
4 Sep 202537min

The Brutal Truth About Open Relationships, Ep. 125
Curious about open relationships but tired of the Instagram highlight reel version? This episode gets real about what it actually takes to make non-monogamy work — the messy feelings, the constant neg...
28 Aug 202533min

Patriarchy and Polyamory — Unpacking Power, Gender, and ENM with Cass Banker, Ep. 124
What happens when you leave monogamy… but bring patriarchy with you? In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I sit down with Cass Banker (they/them) — a polyamorous, eXvangelical, non-binary hu...
21 Aug 202557min

The Cost of Shrinking: When Monogamy Doesn’t Fit, Ep. 123
“What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I just be happy with what I have? Why do I keep wanting more when I already have a ‘good’ relationship?” If that question has been looping in your head, this episode ...
14 Aug 202520min

Leaving Purity Culture, Finding Non-Monogamy: Healing, Desire & Autonomy with Leah Carey, Ep. 122
What happens when you grow up being told your body isn’t yours, your desires are dangerous, and your worth is tied to being someone’s “only one”… and then you finally break free? In this powerful conv...
7 Aug 202555min

Why Finding Your People Changes Everything in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 121
In non-monogamy, being misunderstood often feels like the default—and being truly seen? That’s the exception. But finding your people truly changes everything. In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monog...
31 Jul 202526min




















