Perfect on Paper, But Not for Me - Mate Value, Attraction, and the Disagreeable Personality
Most people assume mate value is a fixed, rankable number and that attraction follows logically from it. Dr. Lisle says that is the wrong model entirely. Mate value has deep objectivity across a popul...
13 Mai 1h
When the Marriage Is Over, but the Mortgage Isn't
Most people think a marriage in trouble can be downgraded into a business arrangement to protect the house. Dr. Lisle says that is the previous investment trap talking, not your judgment. The four wal...
29 Apr 50min
380: You're Not Overreacting About Your Partner (Here's why)
Your partner's habits are driving you crazy and asking nicely isn't working. The common advice is to be more patient, communicate better, or just accept your partner as they are. Dr. Lisle says that's...
15 Apr 1h 7min
379: Why Your Partner Stopped Trying (It's Not What You Think)
Most people assume that whoever cares less in a relationship holds the power. In this episode, Dr. Doug Lisle explains why that framing gets it completely backwards. What people call the "care gap" is...
2 Apr 1h
378: All's Fair in Love, War, AI, and the Marketplace
Q1: I am an artist and I will occasionally use AI for reference material. But I still sketch the image out onto canvas and then paint it all by hand. My issue is when other artists create AI artwork...
24 Mar 56min
377: Dr. Lisle ESCAPES Dubai … to talk about Acceptance/Commitment therapy
Q1: Dear Dr. Lisle, I am curious what your thoughts are on Acceptance and Commitment therapy? I am a psychologist, and I have to use this method at my job, and I have noticed that some of the points ...
11 Mar 1h 17min
376: He wants the physical, She wants the emotional
0:00 Teaser Clips & Intro 2:10 A little bit about Bitcoin 2:40 Q1: He wants sex, she wants connection 10:45 Females are defensive until they see love cues 22:25 Suspected key issue 29:15 Cou...
5 Mar 56min
375: Am I Still Hot? The OCD-Like Anxiety of Aging
Evolutionary psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD discusses listener questions with co-host, Nathan Gershfeld. Dear Dr. Lisle, This question is about coming to terms with aging. I know that being "young" i...
5 Feb 48min
