A Crooked Gospel That Created My Crooked Life
Dear Evangelicals, your gospel is crooked. Your lifestyle is crooked. That’s why I’m a crooked girl who’s trying to unravel and untangle this life that was warped by you. You praise and enable abusers...
22 Jul 202324min
How Suffering Led Me Away From Church
Dear Evangelicals, you avoid fear and other uncomfortable emotions like the plague. I learned that God is actually with us when we’re afraid or suffering. Here’s the story of finding the God of peace ...
21 Jul 202340min
Adult Children Running the Church
Dear Evangelicals, you act like children! You act powerless and irresponsible. You’re not grounded in reality about relationships or many other facets of life.
20 Jul 202342min
Covid: The Savior I Hate
Dear Covid, you’ve wrecked my body in so many ways but you also brought me out of a cult and a soul-killing marriage. Nothing else in life gave me the determination or awareness about those things the...
20 Jul 202320min
“You Sinner!” (These Are My Sins)
Dear Evangelicals, you pointed out so many sins during my tumultuous last year at your church that I started keeping a list of them! Little did you know that I would laugh at the absurdity of them whe...
17 Jul 202327min
Shunned
Dear Evangelicals, you look at me in horror like I’m a terrifying monster. I think I know why.
15 Jul 202329min
Not Thriving
Dear Evangelicals, you’re so afraid of pain and sadness that you cheerfully expect me to be happy when my husband moves out after decades of him abusing me? This letter is what I say to that!
15 Jul 202312min
Marriage is Supposed to be Hard?
Dear Evangelicals, my marriage was always under attack. I thought Satan was the attacker but it turned out that my husband was abusing me. I close with the poem “Worth the Pain?”
15 Jul 202355min
