
Q&A! Statistical Likelihoods, A 28 Year Age Difference, & Sex Vs Commitment, Which Comes First?
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy won't commit until after sex, is that a red flag? When someone cancels a date, what's the statistical likelihood that their excuse...
26 Jan 20231h 12min

Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Desperate Search For Ver-Zach-Y
Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% of...
24 Jan 202354min

We Broke Up Because Of His ED But Now He's Giving Mixed Signals—Help!
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Emily, who has found herself in a platonic friendship with her ex for whom she still harbors romantic feelings. His ED also played a part in their ...
19 Jan 202350min

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions!
Ask and you shall receive! For literal YEARS you've been asking "where are they now?" when it comes to our Shandies' quandaries, and today's the day we find out! This episode includes all updates that...
12 Jan 20231h 12min

BEST OF 2022! Our Favorite Q&As Of The Year
Due to an unexpected change in Sharleen's singing schedule, today's episode contains two Dear Shandy firsts: 1) we're recording remotely, and 2) we're breaking down our personal "greatest hits" Q&As o...
22 Des 20221h 57min

Q&A! Considering Your Ex's Feelings, The Opposite Of Hate, And A Shandy Pep Talk
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the opposite of hate truly indifference, and if so, d...
15 Des 20221h 3min

My Boyfriend Wants To Open Up Our Relationship—Help!
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Rosemary who has been with her partner for 2.5 years. The two always thought they might be open to non-monogamy one day, but she's suddenly faced w...
8 Des 202256min

Q&A! Living With Mom, Mismatched In Dancing & Sending A Bad Text To The Wrong Person
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When timing doesn't feel like your friend, should you send a "If you're single in the future" message? Is it wrong to be turned off that yo...
1 Des 20221h 5min






















