
Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao
Today we're diving deep into a topic you've been requesting since Dear Shandy's earliest days: Enmeshment. We're joined by psychotherapist Alyssa Mancao to define this dynamic, how to navigate it, and...
2 Des 202155min

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Professions Of Love
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loung...
1 Des 20211h 17min

Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your FWB relationship is firmly in the past, should you still tell your current partner about it? How important is it to have a social l...
25 Nov 20211h 22min

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://w...
24 Nov 20211h 10min

LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sarah Herron (who you may remember from Sean Lowe's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 1st and 3rds seasons of Bachelor In Paradise) and her fiancé, a...
18 Nov 20211h 5min

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and lounge...
17 Nov 20211h 13min

My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?
It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Claire, is in a happy relationship. However, her boyfriend's sister is rude in small ways. Are these slights a matter of obliviousness, dominance, or maturity? And is ...
11 Nov 202151min

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy
Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.postmates.com (or use the app!) and use code SHANDY to get 50% off you...
10 Nov 20211h 15min




















