Handing the Shame Back

Sometimes as survivors we can feel guilty, frozen or just plain wrong about having sex. As adults this has impact beyond what we can imagine. Have a look at this video as it just may help free you up ...

4 Mar 20255min

Today is the day! We are beyond excited to have received the books, "Keeping Kids Safe", which will be distributed to schools across New Zealand. We are still accepting donations to cover book distrib...

4 Mar 20251min

Meet Susan Gold Survivor, Author and Transformationalist. She was the middle child born in a family where generational abuse was undealt with and therefore continued. She was abused by her brother bet...

25 Feb 202546min

We have now raised $2,500. If you are able to help, please use this direct link: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4iIfR1b8Pdpu7ss and include the reference 'Book Distribution' to ensure the funds are allo...

20 Feb 20252min

It is entirely natural for you as a survivor of child sexual abuse to struggle with sex as an adult. some survivors have a constant battle with this, preferring to be celibate in the end. For others g...

18 Feb 20255min

As children, we were always dependent on the adults around us to meet our needs. This is common and expected, as we were unable to feed or clothe ourselves. However, guilt does feature because we had ...

11 Feb 20254min

Meet Steven Shelton Survivor and Author Was abused by many males beginning when he was just 4 years old. His mother walked in on the abuse, saw it, and walked back out again. This was the beginning of...

4 Feb 202546min

We are thrilled to provide answers to any questions you may have — let's interact! We want to provide information you need, in order to do that, please email us at contactus@handingtheshameback.org an...

30 Jan 20259min