
Making a Habit of Love Without Conditions (Revisited)
This episode is one of the -- if not THE-- #1 most essential episode of this podcast, if you want to have a loving, connected lasting marriage. SO important I'm updating and re-publishing it so you ca...
27 Mar 202544min

The Power Of The Pause In Intimate Relationships
183 This episode is for everyone in an intimate relationship —especially if reactivity is ever an issue, or if you ever find yourself in sticky, difficult, or heated interactions with your spouse– o...
20 Mar 202524min

The 3 Simple Things You Must Be Able To Do To Have A Great Marriage (Revisited)
182 The ESSENCE of what it takes to have a good – even GREAT – marriage is not complex – it's actually very simple. In this episode, I boil down EVERYTHING I teach my clients to do–and everything I h...
6 Mar 202527min

The HSP Time-Out (Don’t Live Or Love Without It)
181 If you sometimes find yourself overwhelmed, triggered, emotionally overloaded, or reactive in conversation (or conflicts) with your spouse, this is a must listen episode. In it, I want to introd...
20 Feb 202528min

How To Argue Better; 9 Ground Rules For Smoother Conflict
180 Most, if not all, couples argue. Even when their relationship is very healthy. So if you and your spouse find yourself mired in the occasional --or even more regular -- conflict, it doesn't mean i...
6 Feb 202528min

Update and Announcements (How to Make the Most of the Podcast)
179 Things are changing around here going forward. What will it mean for you? How can the podcast (now a vast library!) be even MORE helpful going forward? Listen to this short episode to hear what t...
23 Jan 202515min

Is It Time To Leave Your Marriage? How To Know
178 If you're unhappy enough in your marriage to be questioning if you should stay or go, you probably feel uncertain, confused, afraid. You're too scared and unsure if it's the right thing to do to ...
9 Jan 202540min

How Highly Sensitive People Can Feel More Fulfilled in Their Relationship
177 There are three major things I learned from my first marriage ending in divorce that have allowed me to create an amazing fulfilling marriage with my second husband. And they have to do with unde...
2 Jan 202525min



















