How’s Your Sex Life?

Should I tell my friend I have feelings for them? Do I tell the guy I’m seeing that I had an OnlyFans? Is it time to leave my relationship? Jordan Gonsalves hosts But We Loved, a podcast that dives in...

25 Sep 202439min

I love kinky sex, but I need a break! Is faking an orgasm evil or generous? How do I get my libido back? Author Brontez Purnell writes about sex and queerness. His book ‘100 Boyfriends’ was awarded t...

18 Sep 202429min

Why can’t people accept that you can be romantic and casual? I adore my partner, but our bedroom is dead… help! Should I tell my crush I like them or play it cool? Dylan McKeever uses humor to talk ...

11 Sep 202431min

My ex-friend is hooking up with my brother-in-law! Will I regret having sex with only one person my whole life? Is it okay to get back in touch with an old flame? Matteo Lane and Nick Smith are comedi...

4 Sep 202427min

I’m sick of dating apps but it’s hard to meet people in person! How do I talk to my partner about his porn habits without sounding like a prude? And when do I pose the infamous: ‘what are we?’ Tomás ...

28 Aug 202440min

I’m new to dating other women! Is it ok to look for traits my ex had in future partners? How do I deal with an ex who keeps sending me mixed signals? Amber Whittington, aka AmbersCloset, is a conte...

21 Aug 202435min

Is my sex vanilla just because I don’t want a threesome? My ‘no strings attached’ sex life is not as fulfilling as I thought. I don’t want to be a sex doll! How do I navigate external validation and w...

14 Aug 202435min

I don’t see my friends unless I organize the hangout and I’m over it! How can I rebuild my connection to my long-distance bestie? My friend thinks I betrayed them, help! This week we’re answering you...

7 Aug 202443min