
25: I hate the way that you walk, I hate the way that you talk
Prompted by Kendrick’s anthemic Drake diss, Ash claims we’re living through the summer of the hater. But what does it mean to hate so hard? Plus: a listener who feels rejected by her English in-laws. ...
6 Aug 20241h 14min

24: Help! What’s my purpose in life?
Moya and Ash butt heads over the lure of individualism and living a political life. Plus: Moya enters her busy-body era with a new segment, Missed Connections! Tell us about the brief encounters you j...
30 Jul 20241h 10min

23: Surviving your Saturn return
Moya and Ash debate the power of astrology and explain how they survived their ‘Saturn return’ era. Plus: Ash’s best anti-procrastination techniques. Come and see If I Speak live at the London Podcast...
23 Jul 20241h 5min

22: How will I know if I really want kids? w/ Renay Richardson
Ash and Moya are joined by podcast entrepreneur and single mum Renay Richardson to talk about the realities of solo parenting, from being blocked from adopting to the shortage of Black sperm donors. P...
16 Jul 20241h 21min

21: What does it take to be effortlessly cool?
Ash has a theory of cool that involves nonchalance, style and timing – but Moya’s not so sure. Plus, advice for one listener who wants respect in their situationship, and someone dealing with a newcom...
9 Jul 202454min

20: Skinny is back in fashion. FFS!
The return of low rise jeans was a harbinger of something worse: being seriously thin is back in fashion. But why now? Moya and Ash have a Big Theory. Plus: the brown girl moisturising protocol. CW: w...
2 Jul 202456min

19: We’re boiling with rage
Moya has a big theory about why everyone’s on such a short fuse these days and Ash responds to a listener with a debilitating crush. Plus: science or magic? We’re going to Glastonbury! Moya will be jo...
25 Jun 20241h 2min

18: Why does everything feel so disposable?
Ash presents a big theory about disposability and social shame prompted by a wardrobe clearout, and Moya responds to a dilemma about dating while living with parents. Plus: spot remedies. Come and see...
18 Jun 202458min




















