Love Letters to a Unicorn

It is common to hear "submission is a gift." The premise is that the submissive holds all the power until they agree to cede some to a dominant. At any time the submissive may withdraw power. This con...

29 Mar 20214min

Ever want to try fisting? Scared? Not sure how? Afraid of hurting your partner? I've got you covered! Here are the basics for anal or vaginal fisting! This episode is also available as a blog post: ...

29 Mar 202111min

As public spaces reopen, the kink world is starting to get back to in-person events! This is great. But... you may not realize how much you have changed in the past year. Get ready to re-enter the in-...

29 Mar 20215min

LGBTQ+ Pride has been enveloped by corporate sponsors and a focus on a few parties of young, able-bodied, wealthy queers. This has nothing to do with the origin of Pride or what it means to be a queer...

15 Mar 20216min

Physical accessibility is only part of the accessibility picture. Making your spaces and events fully accessible means that people with various disabilities need to feel welcome in your space. Here ar...

15 Mar 20218min

Looking for ways to make your play space, munch, or conference more accessible to folks? Not sure where to begin? Worried about the expense, level of skill it will take, or just have questions? Here i...

8 Mar 202117min

You don't need fancy and expensive toys to have a good time with kinky sex. Many common toys already exist in your own kitchen (or office, or living room). This post includes dozens of tips on how to ...

6 Mar 20218min

The probability you will have a long term relationship with someone who has identical sexual interests as you do is very slim. What can you do if your partner(s) just aren't into the same stuff you ar...

6 Mar 202112min