
Ep. 65 - Presence vs Power
As we struggle with moving away from embedded porn habits, it is important to make a distinction between the presence of porn and the power of porn. Using Scripture Vern provides hope that although w...
12 Des 202219min

Ep. 64 - Above Reproach
Pastors are frequently told that they need to be above reproach (I Timothy 3) What does this actually mean? How does this relate to having a sexual struggle with something like Porn? In this episod...
9 Nov 202219min

Ep. 63 - It is for Freedom
How do we make sense of the scriptures that promise us Christian freedom when we still struggle with elements of sin's bondage? This Sunday morning message seeks to bridge that gap by providing hope f...
31 Okt 202235min

Ep. 62 - What Relapse Reveals
It is not uncommon to look back at a recent relapse and ask ourself "what was that about?". In this episode Vern seeks to answer that question by exploring what our relapses reveal.I love to talk to ...
26 Okt 202221min

Ep. 61 - I Need to make it Right
This episode refers in part to the 80's movie the Mission. Fair warning the movie does have considerable nudity in it as it portrays the life in the tribes of the South American jungle. On the other h...
19 Okt 202214min

Ep. 60 - Talking to Therapists
I believe that coaching and therapy work super well together. I am a coach not a therapist. I regularly make use of therapists and some therapists have found my approach is a great addition to what ...
12 Okt 202240min

Ep. 59 - A Distortion of Reality
Gerald May in his great book "Addictions and Grace" says that one of the components of an addiction is the "distortion of reality". In this episode Vern explores how an addiction to porn changes, dis...
13 Sep 202225min

Ep. 58 - The Stephen Mansfield Interview
Vern has been using Stephen Mansfield's book - Top Ten Signs of a Leadership Crash as the background for a number of recent episodes. In this episode, Vern is excited to interview Stephen for some fur...
10 Mai 202221min



















