34 Three ways masturbation improves your relationship
Masturbation has gotten all kinds of press over the years - some good, some bad, some clinical. We are fans of masturbation. Let's talk about what it's good for, how you can explore and learn about yo...
15 Aug 202138min
33 Individuation Accelerator: What if we don't keep the same beat in our relationship?
Joli calls relationships an individuation accelerator- is your love built for it? Navigating individual differences between partners is not easy (and individuation requires difference!) In this episod...
8 Aug 202140min
32 What do I do when my partner's family is driving me crazy?
Our partner's family can add some challenges to our relationship. In this episode we talk about our own experiences, our mistakes, our successes, and how our relationship deepens because of all of tha...
1 Aug 202130min
31 Threesomes... what to consider before the fun
Monogamy works really well for a lot of people and yet a recent study showed that group sexual encounters are the number one fantasy in the US. Maybe as a pair, you've started talking about including ...
25 Jul 202142min
30 How to go from off-the-rack to custom-designed relationship
You've heard us talk about making a relationship agreement that really works for your particular love... but what if you have been married and now things have changed? Maybe you still deeply care abou...
18 Jul 202141min
29 Letting your partner grow at their own pace
Last time we talked about managing hard times. What about the good times? Sometimes our partner will be having wins, and maybe we're not, and those times can be challenging too. What can we do to help...
4 Jul 202131min
28 Showing up for your partner during heartbreak & grief
Heartbreak and sadness show up in all of our lives. How we show up for each other during those times can have a big impact on our relationships. In this episode we talk about some of the ways we suppo...
20 Jun 202129min
27 Relationship agreements in the wild
We are talking relationship agreements again, this time looking at how we actually, practically, maintain ours. We also found a hole in one of ours while recording that we need to address. (No relatio...
6 Jun 202131min
