
221 The Art of Reassurance: Relating Through Doubt and Fear
When we're feeling insecure in our relationships (especially during transitions like opening up, navigating new relationship dynamics, or major life changes), we often seek reassurance from our partne...
13 Sep 202537min

220 How to Finally Hear Each Other: Low vs. High Context Communication
Communication is the foundation of all relationships. But what happens when we're speaking different languages without even realizing it? Often the result is confusion, frustration, and feeling misund...
6 Sep 202531min

219 A Patient Path into Non-Monogamy with Laura & Bill
Many of us hear stories about couples who dive headfirst into non-monogamy without preparation (what I call the "jumping out of the airplane without a parachute" approach). But after 33 years of marri...
30 Aug 202554min

218 What will opening up do to us?
When couples consider opening their relationships, one of the most common questions that comes up is: "What will happen to us?" This fear makes perfect sense—you've built something special together, a...
23 Aug 202543min

217 Jealous right now? Listen to this.
Jealousy can feel overwhelming, urgent, and all-consuming. It can make us want to act immediately—to confront, to check locations, to curl up and hide, or even to rage. But what if instead of rushing ...
16 Aug 202515min

216 Helping Your Partner Through an Intense Moment of Jealousy
Jealousy happens—even to this jealousy expert! But when your partner is experiencing jealousy, it can feel overwhelming and confusing. Without the right tools, it can quickly spiral into disconnection...
9 Aug 202544min

215 Nurturing Established Relationship Energy
When you've been together for years, it's easy to let your relationship run on autopilot. But what happens when you need to reconnect, especially after a difficult period? In this episode, we share ou...
2 Aug 202554min

214 Defying Mononormativity with @Polyamarla
When we step outside established relationship norms, we're not just changing our dating lives—we're challenging entire paradigms that shape how we see the world. In this episode, we welcome Marla Schr...
26 Jul 202551min




















