
285: Kai Cheng Thom on consent, healing, & pleasure
tl;dr Kai Cheng Thom on consent, healing, & pleasure This episode is generously brought to you by LOLA. Listeners, save 30% off your first month's subscription of period products (tampons, pads, and...
17 Nov 20191h 6min

284: Learning to be vulnerable, is cheating bad, and big penises
tl;dr How to vulnerable and honest, is cheating bad, and what to do about a big penis? News! Patrons who support at $3 and above, you're invited to join the Explore More book club. We are meeting...
10 Nov 20191h

283: Healthy relationship behaviors (green flags), community accountability
tl;dr Relationship green flags (healthy relationship behaviors), community accountability, and play party etiquette. News! Patrons who support at $3 and above, you're invited to join the Explore ...
3 Nov 201952min

Sex Gets Real 282: Squirting, fat-friendly therapist, & when a marriage falls apart
tl;dr Is squirting embarrassing? How can I find a fat-friendly therapist? What if my marriage is falling apart? News! Patrons who support at $3 and above, you're invited to join the Explore More ...
27 Okt 201948min

Sex Gets Real 281: Sexy pics of your ex, herpes & pleasure
tl;dr What should you do with sexy pics of your ex and what if you still get off to them? How can you have more pleasure if you have herpes and your partner does not? And what should you do if you can...
20 Okt 201938min

280: Nurturance culture with Nora Samaran
tl;dr Nurturance culture, rape culture, accountability, and boundaries with Nora Samaran. Don't miss the October cohort of Power in Pleasure, my 5-week online course dedicated to exploring your plea...
6 Okt 20191h 25min

REPLAY Sex Gets Real 221: Andy Izenson on alternative justice, resilient relationships, & masculinity
Radical love, resilient community, and never being discarded with Andy Izenson I am so excited to replay this episode with Andy Izenson. When it first aired, I received loads of emails as a response, ...
30 Sep 20191h 17min

Sex Gets Real 279: Extreme self-pleasure shame and sexuality versus genitals
tl;dr Why coming forward about sexual assault doesn't "ruin" lives, what to do when you're deeply ashamed of masturbation, & does loving penises make a straight man gay? News! The October Cohort...
22 Sep 20191h 6min



















