
Recovering from Covid-19: A personal note from Cary
Hello Friends, This is a short podcast-only edition just to let you know that I am now home after five weeks in the Italian hospital, that I am recovering slowly, expecting to be good as new eventuall...
17 Des 20206min

I’m apathetic! I never get around to anything!
Dear Cary, I have a question about apathy. For years it has been my most loyal companion. I have dreams, visions, I have talents – all of which fall short because I simply do not get around to anythin...
29 Okt 202026min

Bonus Audio for Since You Asked #18: I'm a Poll Worker, Baby!
This is the audio track I published on Salon.com in November, 2000, about hosting the election in our San Francisco garage.--CT Support the show
22 Okt 20204min

Be a Poll Worker! Save democracy! Make a tiny amount of money!
Dear Reader, In 1997, Norma and I were standing in the garage of the house we’d recently bought, out on 48th Avenue and Ortega in San Francisco, a foggy, flat, sea-washed landscape of mid-20th century...
22 Okt 202016min

No Matter What! (You just gotta do it)
Dear Listener, Usually I write an advice column and then I make a podcast from it. But this week, what I needed to say was better just spoken. I could get into it better. I could feel it in my chest a...
15 Okt 202017min

Is fascism coming? Should I leave the country?
Dear Cary, I'm wondering if I should leave America as soon as possible to avoid whatever may happen during and after the election in November. It feels like Fascism. I would love to know what you thin...
8 Okt 202022min

And now for something completely different
Dear reader, This week I have received no letters asking for advice. So instead of a column, here is a scene from the novel Famous Actress Disappears. Which I started writing on the N-Judah streetcar ...
24 Sep 202012min

Why has success brought me only frustration?
Dear Cary, I'm writing about a frustration that no one I know--including my spouse, family, and friends--seems to understand. I have my dream job. My current work might be the thing I was put on this ...
17 Sep 202030min



















