To pull yourself together, push others in a different direction.
“You’re not spending any time with us since you got THAT partner” … says your friends. “Why do you always choose spending time with your friends over me” … says your partner. Sound familiar?How to you...
31 Aug 20213min
How do I control my codependency?
“I can only be happy if you’re happy”, you say to your partner. … “But I can’t stand to you see fail because you have so much potential. I’m going to be here and help you be that rising star.”Sound f...
24 Aug 20213min
Ugly ducklings become the Most beautiful Swans in the Mind of the beholder.
Have you ever met someone that you really clicked with but not quite physically attracted to them?You feel the person is everything you want …. very nice …. Intelligent…. just the sweetest person ever...
18 Aug 20213min
When your partner is upset, don’t throw thunderbolts criticizing their behavior.
It’s been another long day at the office. You’re exhausted and ready to spend some quality time with your partner to heal your mind. But on entering your home a different atmosphere is present. You ...
11 Aug 20213min
Setting expectations early keeps OUR Lovin’ Ship cruising
A friend of my partner came upon hard times and needed a place to float while getting on their feet. I knew of their closeness and agreed to let the friend stay for a while. As the weeks passed, I sa...
5 Aug 20213min
My Independence came at an UNexpected price.
You’ve finally met the right person and you are totally infatuated with them. Yes, you have some negative times with arguing …. and they may not call when they say they will, …. but no one is perfe...
29 Jul 20214min
Your friends diss your precious after their first meeting. What should you do?
The two of you have been dating for a while and you’re clicking quite nicely. They seem to get you as much as you get them. They are becoming quite close to you. Before long your friends begin pushi...
22 Jul 20213min
When dating, choose potential over reality for the best you.
They are the ALMOST perfect person! Gorgeous, smart—everything anyone could want, but with one blemish--- they’re missing that special something.Listen to The Stoicess' podcast as she reveals her secr...
15 Jul 20213min
