
Partner not listening to you? Do this...
Does your partner tune you out, or get defensive and withdrawn when you try to get vulnerable with them? Check you're not accidentally repelling them by doing this one thing. If you prefer to watch ...
23 Sep 202418min

How to be his lover, not his mother
This goes for any women in relationships with men, or yin people in relations with yang people. If you find yourself feeling "off" in your relationship, it might not be you're in the wrong relationshi...
16 Sep 202436min

The tough love I needed in my relationship anxiety journey
I'm sharing something a relationship coach shared with me that really shook me up and convinced me to step up in my relationship and quit committing to the story I was powerless to do anything about m...
9 Sep 202429min

93: Do you want to break up or fight right before your period?
Scientific, biological, and spiritual reasons why you might feel disconnected from your partner before and during your period. I speak both to women experiencing this, and men who might want to know h...
2 Sep 202450min

92: "What if I want kids and my partner doesn't?"
In the past I've touched on this as an incompatibility, but as usual — I think it's more nuanced than that, and there are a few things you might do to try to get on the same page before you either han...
26 Aug 202450min

91: The Uncertainty of Babymaking
After a few-months long hiatus, I'm happy to share what I've been up to: settling down and starting a new life. In this episode, I share some of my own humbling realities and observations of trying to...
18 Aug 202440min

90: A Source of Your Relationship Anxiety
This episode is a recording of an impromptu Instagram Live I did last week. If you can see this pattern in yourself, you can also find freedom! Work with me: Next Patreon Community Call: Friday, J...
27 Mai 202413min

89: How illusion is ruining your sex life and attraction (and what to do about it)
My most "meta" episode yet... If your suffering about your relationship is caused by comparisons to illusions (rose-colored memories of your ex, Disney, Tiktok), then can we flip the dynamic on its ...
4 Mar 202426min



















