
#133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships
What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually?In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psychology of mismatched desire, sex...
11 Sep 1h 1min

#132 Kink & Neurodivergence: BDSM, Mental Health & Consent with Auntie Vice
What's missing when the standard rules of kink assume everybody's brain works the same way?In this episode Auntie Vice returns to explore the intersection of BDSM, neurodivergence and mental health — ...
8 Sep 49min

#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire
What do your sexual fantasies reveal about you?In this episode I'm joined by Cat Savard, founder of Good Ember, to explore the psychology and data behind our sexual fantasies.Link to Survey data here:...
4 Sep 56min

#130 Owning Your Kink: Living Authentically, Cults & Consent with Rain DeGrey
What happens when you stop hiding your kink and decide to fully own who you are?In this episode Rain DeGrey takes us from coming out of the kink closet and finding herself at Kink.com just three weeks...
1 Sep 1h 49min

#129 Desire and Your Body: Judith Swack on Shame, Trauma & Sexuality
What happens when there is a disconnect between what your mind and your body wants?In this episode I explore with Judith Swack, creator of Healing from the Body Level Up (HBLU), about sexual shame, tr...
28 Aug 1h 4min

#128 Why Financial Domination Turns People On: Money, Power & Kink with Harley
Why can giving someone your money become an act of erotic surrender?In this episode I'm joined by Harley to explore the psychology of financial domination — better known as findom — and the complex re...
25 Aug 54min

#127 The Psychology of Pony Play: Rapidash on Transformation, Submission & Pony Space
What happens when you don't just want to pretend to be a pony but you want to psychologically become one?In this episode I'm joined by Desmond, known in the kink community as Rapidash, for our first e...
21 Aug 1h

#126 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure, Desire & the Psychology of Orgasm with Annette Benedetti
What happens when you commit to having an orgasm every single day for an entire year?In this episode we explore Annette's 365 Days of Orgasms journey — what began as an unusual personal experiment and...
18 Aug 57min



















