Bonus 4: Reflections on Negotiation, Trust, and Power
In this milestone bonus episode, Chris looks back on episodes 2 through 6 of The Kink Compass . Exploring what we’ve learned about negotiation, safewords, trust, power exchange, and finding the right ...
21 Sep 202514min
Finding a Kink Partner
Finding the right kink partner isn’t about sparks alone. It is about clarity, trust, and patience. In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores where to meet partners, how to filter for the rig...
20 Sep 202529min
Bonus Episode 3 - The Core of BDSM
Beyond the ropes and whips lies the true heart of BDSM: Consent and Trust. In this bonus episode, Chris explores why these forces are the foundation of safe, meaningful, and powerful play. From safewo...
15 Sep 202511min
The Psychology of Power
Why does surrender feel electric? Why does control feel grounding? In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris dives into the psychology behind power exchange. From the stories we carry into kink, to t...
14 Sep 202542min
The Body in Play
The body isn’t just where kink happens. It is the instrument of play. In this episode, Chris explores how pacing, rhythm, and chemistry shape every scene. We dive into the science of subspace and doms...
7 Sep 202546min
Bonus Episode 2 - The History of Virginity
From ancient Rome to modern debates, this episode explores the strange, sometimes absurd history of virginity. Chris traces how laws, religion, and culture have defined and defended an idea that can’t...
6 Sep 20251h 6min
The Science of Trust
Safe words. Signals. The language of trust in kink. In this episode, Chris dives deep into why these agreements don’t kill the mood- They make it. From the traffic-light system to creative non-verbal ...
31 Aug 202524min
Bonus Episode: Ten Green Flags in a Healthy Sadist
In this bonus episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores what makes a sadist trustworthy, caring, and genuinely exciting to play with. From valuing consent above all else, to understanding pain in al...
26 Aug 202513min
