Queer Identity Development Theory
I was asked to create a class around the Queer Identity Development Theory I created for a University sexology course and I'm sharing that with you as well! The teacher loved it, I hope you do too! Mu...
21 Apr 39min
The "boy crazy" to lesbian pipeline with Natalie Kelley
Natalie Kelly shares her journey of discovering her lesbian identity, the boy crazy to lesbian pipeline, and navigating relationships, gender expression, and societal expectations. You can find Natali...
6 Apr 1h 3min
Don't count my p*ssy miles with Erica Smith
We talk about second adolescence pertaining to coming out as LGBTQ+, divorce and/or leaving a high control religion. What it can entail, feel like and why it often serves as an important part of ident...
30 Mar 51min
Queering identity with Cindy Lee Alves Watley
We talk about the politics of identity and experience, metaphors for pleasure, and somehow land in our favorite conspiracy theories. Shout out Gerald the dolphin. You can find Cindy Lee here. You can ...
19 Mar 46min
I run with d/kes: on the significance of queer friendship
I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move through the world. Our relationships hold culture, und...
11 Mar 45min
Are the heteros ok? Love is blind & performing attraction
Is "I like blondes" a sexual orientation or a bro hierarchy? Why does straight people talking about their types feel like what I was doing when I was experiencing comp-het? And what I'm actually into ...
3 Mar 29min
Is scissoring real? & other queer sex questions with Cindy Lee
Erin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the difference?), lesbian bed death, what "counts" as sex and more! You can f...
23 Feb 49min
Field notes for a "new" lesbian (or late bloomer if you like that terminology)
This episode is a bunch of affirmations I needed when I was "coming out" after divorcing a man. About indoctrination, sex, identity, imposter syndrome, and other people's opinions. The first 8 minutes...
16 Feb 44min
