The Place We Find Ourselves

In Warfare Part 1, we looked at the fact that The Place We Find Ourselves is living in the midst of a world at war. Today, in Part 2, we look at how, specifically, the kingdom of darkness wages war against your heart. What are evil's goals, strategies, tactics? The kingdom of darkness primarily uses two simple tactics: deception and accusation. Today we focus on accusation.

15 Jul 201922min

We live in a world at war. It's a war between light and darkness, between the Kingdom of God and the Kingdom of Evil. This is the place we find ourselves. In the episodes to follow we'll look at how evil operates and how to fight back to win the war for your heart and the hearts of those you love. Support the podcast

1 Jul 201922min

Today's episode focuses on how attachment styles play out in close relationships. I am joined by Rachel Blackston, who is a therapist in Orlando, Florida. Rachel begins today's conversation by reading an essay about love and war in her marriage. It's a beautiful and vulnerable piece that gives you a window into how insecure attachment plays out in a real-life marriage. I'm deeply grateful to Rachel for her willingness to dive head first into this very difficult and important arena. You can read more about Rachel at rachelblackston.com. Support the podcast

6 Mai 201944min

I am joined today by Scott Gibson who is a therapist in the Chicago area. Scott graciously shares a story about himself as an 11 year old boy. It's a story about desire, about devastation, and especially about attachment. If you resonate with Scott's words today, you might want to go back and listen to Episode 14 in which Scott talks more about his own story, particularly with regard to engaging the harm of sexual abuse. Support the podcast

22 Apr 201934min

For most of my Christian life, I didn't know it was possible to hear from God. I was taught that God stopped talking after the Bible. I simply didn't know that God talked to his children on a regular basis. And so I didn't take time to listen. Not because I didn't want to hear from God—there was nothing I wanted more. I just didn't know it was possible to hear from God. In 2015 this all changed for me. I began to learn how to hear from God. Today's episode is about the process of learning how to hear from God. Support the podcast

8 Apr 201937min

If your parents did not have a healthy marriage—a deep emotional connection—then it is likely that either you or your sibling has experienced some measure of subtle sexual abuse. Subtle sexual abuse wreaks havoc in your heart… but because of its subtlety, you can live your whole life without knowing what's plaguing you. Today we talk about what subtle sexual abuse is and how it can affect you. Support the podcast

25 Mar 201930min

This is really two episodes in one. In the first half we talk about sexual abuse that doesn't involve physical touch, also known as subtle sexual abuse or covert sexual abuse. In the second half, Sandy graciously reads a story from when she was in kindergarten. And as we reflect on Sandy's story, we see how a single story can affect your brain for decades. As Sandy puts it, "I don't think I was ever the same after that day." Support the podcast

11 Mar 201943min

How do you know if you're in a relationship with a narcissist? What might that relationship feel like? In today's episode, I talk with Chuck DeGroat about the dynamics of narcissism. Chuck is a seminary professor and a therapist who has a book coming out about what happens "when narcissism comes to church." Support the podcast

25 Feb 201932min