SPENDING HIS MONEY
Are you dating to marry or dating for money? Do women deserve to be paid to be pregnant? Is it possible to fall in love without giving away your power to a man? These are questions that need answers ...
8 Nov 202455min
STICKING TO YOUR GUNS
Do you struggle with putting your foot down when handling a situation with a guy? Are you often 'too nice' when you should be a little more dubious of men? Have you fallen into the mentality of making...
1 Nov 202457min
SUBTLE SIGNS HE'S NOT THE ONE
Do you feel like that man is romantically edging you? Is there a vibe that he 'kind of' likes you but is holding back? Are you at a crossroads of whether you should keep emotionally investing in him? ...
24 Okt 202435min
DO LOOKS MATTER?
Do looks really matter? Should we 'dress for men'? Is it considered 'unfeminist' to use your beauty as leverage? We cover all these questions in this episode, where The Slumflower dives into beauty a...
18 Okt 202437min
OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF ASKING MEN FOR STUFF
Do you feel like you 'owe' men sex for a cocktail? Does the 'gold digger' label scare you away from being upfront about your needs? Are you playing to win or are you playing to be fair? In this episo...
11 Okt 20241h 21min
ARE YOU A STRICT BABE?
Are you trying to find the firmness in your voice? Or are you worried you might be a bit too blunt? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through the ways we can all be a little stricter withou...
4 Okt 202454min
HOW TO EXPLOIT MEN
Do you feel bad about dating selfishly? Does the idea of 'using' a man make you feel guilty? Is it exploitative to date men with your best interest at the forefront? In this episode, join The Slumflo...
27 Sep 202440min
IS HE A BOYFRIEND OR IS HE A TRAUMA BOND?
Have you convinced yourself you're stuck with that man? Is he really the best you can do? Why do you even keep giving him chances? In this brief and funny episode, join The Slumflower as she talks th...
19 Sep 202436min
