The Slumflower Hour

Do you feel inclined to self-sabotage in a healthy relationship? If so, what does that sabotage look like? How about balance? Would you consider yourself a secure skeptic? Or are you prepared to jump ...

12 Jun 37min

Scared the next girl will get a better version of him? Worried that all your hard work sent building him will be enjoyed by another woman? Paranoid that the next girl will be so amazing that she will ...

5 Jun 36min

Is your boyfriend a good boy? Should we train him? Or is it time for him to be handed to the dog home for someone else to take him on as a problem? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about ...

28 Mai 45min

Do you feel self-conscious about having a sexual history? Have men tried to make you feel shame for having been 'ran thru'? Should we start judging men for their sexual pasts in the same way they judg...

21 Mai 43min

Are you the hot girlfriend? Do you find that men try to chip away at your confidence? Has a man ever tried to out-shine you? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the plight of the ...

14 Mai 27min

Have you been victimised by a prideful man? This episode may be for you! Join Chidera as she recounts her experiences with prideful men - and why we all need to guard and protect ourselves from men...

7 Mai 48min

Does the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'? In this episode, join Chidera as she disassembles thi...

30 Apr 54min

How can we explore rebellion in a way that keeps us safe and aligned with our standards? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the importance of rebelling against the rules men have assign...

23 Apr 43min