This Is What We Do

Toks has a great chat with The Neighbors alum(you'll get this once you listen), Adam Sklena. They talk (about) grammar snobs, not working a day in your life and Gene Hackman (call me). You cannot find Adam on social media. Sorry. You can donate to and find out more about The Innocence Project and how to volunteer (and I really encourage you to do any or all of those things) at 25years.innocenceproject.org and follow them on social media at @Innocence  You can find the Wrongful Conviction podcast on iTunes or follow them on Twitter at @WrongConviction and find out more about them (and The Innocence Project) at WrongfulConvictionPodcast.com   Today's song "Apollo at the Cyber Space" by Good Whales. You can find their music on Spotify, Bandcamp and iTunes and follow them on social media at @GoodWhalesMusic   Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

11 Jul 20171h 35min

Toks and El Hubbo talk transportation and all of the annoying things that go with it. Toks is barely awake and El Hubbo is too awake. Let the bickering commence.  Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

9 Jul 20171h 13min

Toks is thrilled to have one of her most favourite human beings ever over to sip tea and chat. She sits down with the incredibly talented, super versatile and always captivating Tim Jo and they talk The Neighbors, The Neighbors and The Neighbors and a bunch of other things, but mostly The Neighbors. Find Tim Jo on all social media at @HelloTimJo You can find out more about the Renew LA program at RenewLA.org Follow Karma Rescue on all social media at @KarmaRescue and find out more about what they do or volunteer and/or donate at KarmaRescue.org AND if you're interested in finding out more about Karma Rescue's amazing Paws For Life program OR you really enjoy ugly crying while your heart is bursting with all the feels watch the news story here: http://ktla.com/2017/05/11/nonprofit-pairs-dogs-at-risk-of-being-euthanized-with-convicts-for-mutual-rehabilitation/   Find the Wrongful Conviction podcast on iTunes or follow them on Twitter at @WrongConviction and find out more about them and The Innocence Project at WrongfulConvictionPodcast.com   Find out more about Pets of the Homeless and volunteer/ donate at PetsOfTheHomeless.org or follow them on Twitter at @PetsOfHomeless   Today's  song is "Insured for EverythingExcept an Act of God" by Much Better. You can follow Much Better on @_MuchBetter on social media and find their songs on Spotify, Bandcamp and iTunes   Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

4 Jul 20171h 44min

Toks takes advantage of being in NYC and talks to Broadway pal Mary Kay Yezerski-Bondoc! They talk clown dolls, quick changes and and clothing swaps... And we hope you can hear the conversation over the sound of Toks's vents being cleaned (but we're really lucky it exists to be heard at all because Toks had to figure out how to record it on her own.....#Genius #Nope).... You can find out more about Love Your Melon at @LoveYourMelon and LoveYourMelon.com You can find out more about Dress For Success @dressforsuccess and check them out to take advantage of their services and find out how to donate clothes or money at dressforsuccess.org Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

27 Jun 20171h 17min

Toks and El Hubbo talk about car chases, reality television and how safe their neighborhood is (not). And Toks got hit in the head (... again).  Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

11 Jun 20171h 22min

Toks's hilarious (and very handsome) friend, David Jahn, joins her for a loooong chat. They talk therapists, learning to say "No" and not being a self righteous prick.... While El Hubbo gives them the middle finger. Repeatedly. You can find out more about Colonel Potter Cairn Rescue Network and donate at www.CairnRescue.Com and you can follow them at @ColPotterRescue on Twitter and @CPCRN on Instagram    If you are a member of the LGBTQ community and you are feeling alone or want to volunteer to help gay youth please visit STOP-Homophobia.com and find the organization at @WipeHomophobia on twitter and https://www.facebook.com/ST0PH0M0PH0BIA/ on Facebook! And remember: if you are a young person and you feel like a fish out of water and/or unappreciated and/or misunderstood and/or are being picked on you are not alone! Your community is out there! And they/ we will love you for who you are! Reach out! Show them/ us where you are so we can find you and support you!   Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

6 Jun 20171h 40min

Toks and El Hubbo are back from a mini vacation with a new episode of Steeping With The Enemy. They talk Mexico, massages, and Melanoma. And Toks explains why she's never on her Facebook page. #GetOut Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/   Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive  content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye  If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com   Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

4 Jun 20171h 3min

Toks is very very VERY excited to present her very very VERY busy PR agent Jay Schwartz who she had over for a particularly candid and wonderful chat. They talk spirituality, plan B and Lauren Bacall. And the dog gets really really bossy. Find Jay at @JayDSchwartz on all social media. You can find out more about Bullies Keep Out LLC at bullieskeepout.comand follow them on twitter at @BulliesKeepOut You can find out more about ECPAT International at ECPAT.net or follow them on Twitter at @ECPAT and you can find out more about ECPAT-USA at ECPATUSA.org or follow them on twitter at @ECPATUSA Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

30 Mai 20171h 25min