Wait, Is This A Date?

Whether you're a lesbian who dated men as a teen or a queer person who dates lots of genders, our community is far too mixed and gender is far too complicated to leave men — cis and trans — out of our...

13 Jul 20221h 6min

This week's topic is Boundaries! We all have our own lessons to learn when it comes to boundaries. For some people, the challenge is learning to share less, for others, to share more. Our guest this w...

6 Jul 202255min

The year: 2017. The day: the beginning of Pride Month. Big Little Lies and The Good Fight had recently released their first seasons. Rihanna had an album out the previous year. Images from Carol still...

29 Jun 202250min

We're back babyyyy! Season 2 is finally here with a whole new lineup of special guests, hilarious games, and your classic WITAD dating advice! New episodes air every Wednesday! Follow us on Instagram ...

28 Jun 20224min

Happy holidays! And by "happy" I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? And most of us have probably had our holiday plans changed once again?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one aka ...

22 Des 20211h 1min

How could we talk about queer dating without talking about astrology and tarot? Whether you're swapping charts with your crush or showing off your latest deck, astrology and tarot are often go-to spir...

13 Okt 20211h

Is it a date or are we just friends? Why not both! This week we're talking about fucking your friends with Autostraddle community editor and fucking your friends expert Vanessa Friedman. We get into t...

6 Okt 202157min

This week we're joined by writer, To L and Back co-host, future TV exec, and Drew's roommate Analyssa Lopez! We're talking about first dates — the who, the what, the where, the why, AND the how. But b...

29 Sep 20211h 3min