Episode 87: Normalization by Exposure
In this episode we discuss how our perceptions change to our reality the more we are exposed to actual events. All of us have pre-lifestyle perceptions, newbie lifestyle perceptions and even veteran l...
23 Jun 20211h 19min
Episode 86: Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle
There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract and connect with other couples. On the men's side of things there is a double standard and a stigma attached to be...
19 Mai 20211h 32min
Episode 85: Feels Like the First Time
Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic. Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticipa...
26 Apr 202156min
Episode 84: The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?
Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested? W...
30 Mar 20211h 22min
Episode 83: The Struggle is Real
Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect st...
22 Feb 20211h 16min
Episode 82: The Compatibility Conversation
We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatibi...
22 Jan 20211h 20min
Episode 81: The Language of the Lifestyle
In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speaking...
30 Nov 20201h 25min
Episode 80: Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle
We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe. In this episode we offer tips on what ...
31 Okt 20201h 21min
