The Hell Raiser: Carving Out Space for My Voice and The Power of Being Unapologetically Yourself

In this conversation, Adri and Michell explore the intersection of identity, law, and advocacy. Michell shares her experiences as a first-generation queer Latina navigating the legal world and how her background has shaped her journey as a Family Law attorney. The discussion delves into the challenges of being unapologetically herself in the courtroom, where she’s committed to prioritizing accountability, transparency, and fighting for her clients.

Adri and Michell discuss the obstacles she has faced, including microaggressions and the pressure to conform to traditional norms within the legal profession. Michell reflects on what it means to rock the boat and stand firm in her identity, despite these challenges. They also dive into the importance of mental health and self-care, especially for those in high-pressure careers like law, and how Michell has incorporated therapy, community, and boundary-setting into her routine.

The conversation highlights the importance of creating space for oneself and others, standing up for what’s right, and embracing the power of mentorship and community support. Michell shares her vision for a more inclusive legal system and the impact she hopes to make as she continues her journey.

Guest Bio

Michell Flores, Esq. is a first-generation queer Latina Family Law attorney based in Sacramento, California. Recognized as a Rising Star from 2022 to 2024, Michell is passionate about challenging perspectives, standing up for justice, and creating space for others to thrive. With a focus on accountability and doing the right thing, Michell is committed to making a lasting impact on her community through her work in law.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Michell’s Background

02:24 The Influence of Identity on Michell’s Journey

05:09 Choosing Family Law and the Impact of Intersecting Identities

08:51 Rocking the Boat: Being Unapologetically Yourself

13:12 Prioritizing Accountability and Doing the Right Thing

15:00 Aspiring to Be a Judge and Inspiring Others

19:41 Empowering Moments in Court and Planting Seeds of Change

22:21 Overcoming Obstacles and Finding Strength

27:47 Reflecting on Grief and Prioritizing Mental Health

33:24 Taking Care of Yourself and Seeking Therapy

36:23 Building a Supportive Community and Leaning on Others

38:44 Embracing Challenges and Pushing Through

44:09 The Power of Asking for Help and Seeking Guidance

53:26 Finding Inspiration and Keeping the Inner Child Alive