Episode 63: Fisting Is Not Sex? BottomGuyNYC on Sport, Open Love & Flagging at Work

Episode 63: Fisting Is Not Sex? BottomGuyNYC on Sport, Open Love & Flagging at Work

In this episode of Brolapse, HungerFF sits down with BottomGuyNYC—NYC bar manager, shameless fister, and proud red-hanky flagger—to talk about why, for him, fisting isn’t sex… it’s a sport.


They dig into what it means to “train” for play, why a hand in someone can feel less intimate than dick-and-butt sex, and how he balances a 21-year open relationship where his husband is his emotional home—but the kink happens elsewhere.


From nervously sitting in the car before his first Fist Fest to organizing fisting meetups on Atlantis cruises and Telegram, BottomGuyNYC breaks down the bond between fisters, the power of living openly at work, and how mentorship in kink still survives in the age of algorithms.


If you’ve ever felt “weird” for how you experience sex, intimacy, or kink, this conversation might make you feel a little less alone.


In this episode:


  • Fisting as a sport vs. “real” sex

  • Navigating an open relationship after 20+ years together

  • Flagging red at work and stripping away shame

  • Fist Fest as the “Olympics” and family reunion of kink

  • Telegram, cruises, and building offline community in an online world

  • Mentorship, safety, and why only showing the extreme 45 seconds can be dangerous



Follow BottomGuyNYC:


  • X (Twitter): @bottomguynyc

  • BlueSky: @BottomGuyNYC

  • JustFor.Fans: https://justfor. fans/bottomguynyc1




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Episode 40: Lesbro Logic: Holes, Consent & Frail Masculinity with Pink National Treasure

Episode 40: Lesbro Logic: Holes, Consent & Frail Masculinity with Pink National Treasure

This week on Brolapse, Ryan James (aka HungerFF) sits down with the unapologetically masked mischief-maker himself: Pink National Treasure.From surviving small-town hate with a gun to the head, to bui...

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Episode 39: Pervert Media "I Know Why You're Here"

Episode 39: Pervert Media "I Know Why You're Here"

This week on Brolapse, we get deep and dirty with Sir Joshua — the mastermind behind Pervert Media’s throat-destroying, boundary-blurring, beautifully brutal brand of porn. It’s our first ever sponsor...

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Episode 38: Ian Sterling: Not Chasing Fame, Just the Nut

Episode 38: Ian Sterling: Not Chasing Fame, Just the Nut

Ian Sterling never set out to be a star—he just wanted to make hot shit that people would jack off to. In this raw and reflective episode, Ian opens up about his surprise GayVN nomination, his XBiz fe...

7 Juni 202542min

Episode 37: Kinkoer "You Created A Monster"

Episode 37: Kinkoer "You Created A Monster"

French rising star @kinkoer opens up about the first time he took a fist, the porn that inspired him, and how a long-held fantasy became a full-blown identity. We talk about post-COVID exploration, th...

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Episode 36: Big Boy Energy – Tyler Blake on Fame, Fisting, and the Future of Fetish

Episode 36: Big Boy Energy – Tyler Blake on Fame, Fisting, and the Future of Fetish

In one of the most playful and honest episodes yet, HungerFF sits down with rising star Tyler Blake (@tylerxblakex) for a raunchy, real, and ridiculously fun conversation. From his viral hole to his b...

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Episode 35: The Rose Garden: Angel Díaz on Prolapse, Power Versing & Personal Boundaries

Episode 35: The Rose Garden: Angel Díaz on Prolapse, Power Versing & Personal Boundaries

In this week’s episode of Brolapse, HungerFF is joined by UK-based content creator and self-proclaimed “Ultimate Power Vers” Angel Díaz, whose rosebud is fast becoming legendary in the London scene. T...

17 Maj 20251h 6min

Episode 34: Switch Happens: That Switch Unleashed

Episode 34: Switch Happens: That Switch Unleashed

This week on Brolapse, I’m joined by the one and only @That_Switch, the Buenos Aires-based fisting sensation who turned a passion for toy play into a global kink brand. From his early days experimenti...

10 Maj 202559min

Episode 33: Alpha Bottom Energy: F1LTHP1GS Rebrands, Relaxes, and Gets Real

Episode 33: Alpha Bottom Energy: F1LTHP1GS Rebrands, Relaxes, and Gets Real

This week on Brolapse, I finally sit down with the filthy legend himself: @F1LTHP1GS. Formerly one half of RUBBERP1GS, he’s back with a solo mission, a rebranded identity, and a whole new wave of dirt...

3 Maj 202537min

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