They’re Not the Problem- Your Mindset is Ft. @Madisonmalloy

This week on the Missjudged Podcast, Alyssa and @MadisonMalloy deliver a much-needed reality check for anyone who’s ever said, “All the good ones are taken.”
Spoiler: they’re not. You just might be dating with a terrible mindset, babe.

If you’re tired of ghosting, red flags, and your friends telling you to “just manifest him,” this episode breaks down what’s actually getting in your way — and it’s not the apps, your ex, or the algorithm. It’s your own damn thoughts.

Get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe question your entire approach to dating as we unpack:

• Dating app burnout — Why swiping feels like a full-time job and how to detox without deleting Hinge (again).
• Lack of chemistry — The myth of “instant spark” and why sometimes the slow burn wins.
• Hanging with the wrong people — Why your situationships say more about your self-worth than you’d like to admit.
• Social media Infiltration— How comparing your love life to a highlight reel is making you miserable.
• Mindset mistakes — How bitterness, overthinking, and fear of rejection quietly sabotage your dating life.

Madison and Alyssa keep it real, funny, and a little uncomfortable — because sometimes the truth hurts more than your last situationship.

So pour a glass of wine, put your phone on “Do Not Disturb,” and get ready to trade your dating drama for some serious mindset clarity.

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